what happened to "for better or worse"?
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why dont you tell her your not attracted to her at her current weight? She probably thinks you are OK with it.
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buy her some exersize equiptment
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How would you feel if she left you after a horrible accident and you became a para/quad?
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#2 has to be a women....
ya...I'm sure she thinks every guy projectile vomits when he sees his wife naked....
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I am a woman who is 30 lbs heavier than when we were married. He says he still loves me and having sex with me but secretly I think it is like false advertising.
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i hate hamburger helper...ewwwwww
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....... WoW if she refuses to drop the weight, i'd tell her you were dropping her! Way to go you, moving in with your rents tho... :/. Whateva whateva -
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nothing wrong with that.
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To the person who blamed her obesity on hormones and thyroid problems: Take a physics class and stop making excuses! It is simple thermodynamics - more calories in than out. It is physically impossible to gain weight unless you eat more than you burn. You need to make adjustments instead of excuses.
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Shes unhappy...take a real close look at how you treat her. Are you the type of man that needs his "momma" to tell him to be responsible? Help with the kids, do your part.
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Wow..."honey, I don't love you anymore because your fat." or maybe "Hun, your just to fat for me to love." better yet..."I never really loved you, just your body." Really, I wonder how that conversation is going to go. I bet she'll regret you.
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First,she needs to get off her butt and get a job and contribute to the family, even it's only part-time. ALL of you should get some counseling in marriage, health, diet and exercise. Work together as a family!If YOU try to make things work by getting counseling for your family and your wife denies or refuses the help, then start the ball rolling to save your daughter and yourself. You once loved this woman very much. Try not to be angry and disgusted. One last effort is worth a try. The problem may be fixable. Good Luck!
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It's difficult to care about someone who doesn't care about themself. If you've tried and she refuses, then I can't say I blame you. Especially if she is trying to make your child overweight as well, she sounds very selfish. If she really loved you, she'd be willing to change for you, especially knowing how unhappy it makes you.
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LEAVE HER- you will be doing her a favor- she deserves much more. It will be hard BUT she will find her way and make it without you. YOu will regret this one day- maybe not today but one day. I hate guys like you- the grass is not always greener!!! you will see
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From a woman who's only maybe 5 lbs over weight- Leave her, but don't tell her it's because of her weight.
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From a woman who's only maybe 5 lbs over weight- Leave her, but don't tell her it's because of her weight. Tell her you're gay...you know you're a queer asshole!
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Dude, I feel your pain, my ex went from 130 to 330 within a few years. It boggles my mind as to how anyone can gain that much weight that quickly.
It boggles my mind even more that she cheated on me. So glad she is not a factor in my life anymore.
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You're wasting your life. Divorce her if the attraction is no longer there.
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Wow, this is horrible. I was little when I married my husband and gained a lot of when I was pregnant and am having a really hard time losing it. I exercise and have dieted, but he is supportive of me. Maybe you should talk to her about it and let her know you are worried about her health (not that she disgusts you.) I disgust myself but am reassured by my husband that I am fine just the way I am (which btw, is nowhere near 330/400lbs like your wife though.) Just talk to her. Divorce isn't always the answer just because she gained some weight.
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i like hamburger
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Ok I'm the original postr. I've gained 15 lbs in the ten years we've been married. She eats four times as much as I do and shes dumping food into our little girl like she was a garbage can. To the poster who said she was committing suicide by food well shes also committing murder by food. Me and my child are leaving this whale to her own fate.
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for some, food is an addiction, have you tried getting her help first?
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Wow, it took you a long time to draw the line!
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I'm the original poster and I work two jobs to pay the car notes and the morgage. She never worked a day in her life and one reason I want to leave her is because shes overfeeding our 8 year old daughter. She wants our child to be a lard butt too. I can't protect my child when I'm at work. I'm going to divorced her and try to get custody of my child and move back in with my parents for awhile. At the rate my wife is going she'll be over 400 soon and have a heart attack and die.
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good post, anyone else get hungry from seeing the pic?
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Your wife needs help. You should all get counseling - a broken marriage is no good for a kid - she deserves better.
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I feel that protecting my daughter from becomming like her mother is my first priority. My 8 year old girl is getting fat herself. I may call DFACS.
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WOW- Over the years we have come to accept Gays, Little people, Bi-racial children, Mixed marriages, Blended families and the handicapped as part of the norm without bias. Leave Heavy people alone and concentrate on keeping your jobs and homes. If there is ever a famine due to this recession we are in - FATTIES will outlive you all!!
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I worked my entire life. I was healthy, strong, and determined to try to keep my weight in tact. It was hard, hormones flunctuated, thyroid disease prevalent. I ate right and exercised. The body may be in a natural mode. so all, stop being assholes. understand where it may be coming from.
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Holy mackerel!
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do something about it, its selfish of her to gain all that weight and not do somethign about it. unless you yourself have done the same to yourself.
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My wife eats at least two boxes of chocolates a day. I saw her eat five baby Ruths once. I told her how I felt and she got even worse. 330 lbs of quivering lard. I can't stand it any longer.
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Beneath the blubber is the woman that you married. Help her, don't condemn her.
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I think it's sad that you don't love her enough to be honest with her, to give her a chance. You, my dear, are a coward.
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do it. she's a fat ass.
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All the women here all support the wife's side. "Oh, you're a crap husband to leave your wife just because she's a little heavy."How many women here would really want to have sex with their spouse if they weighed 350-400lbs and sat around the house doing nothing but stuffing their face all day? How many women would want to stay married to a lazy fat worthless husband? Any of you? Anyone? Bueler? Bueler?
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What will u say, "I am leaving u coz ur fat and i need a sexy woman, a good personality doesn't matter"? stupid if u ask me.
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