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Everytime my daughter cries I resent her more.

Everytime my daughter cries I resent her more.

 
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Get some help, neither of you deserve living a life like that
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how can you resent something you made, something you carried and birthed?? Give her up for adoption then!!!! Let a deserving family have her!!! Or just change yourself love her instead of resenting maybe you'll learn to love.....
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Breath, I understand. It's OK to put her somewhere safe and take 5-10 mins to get it together. Mothering isn't easy and she won't be scarred for life if she cries alone while you take a break.
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Its ok, but she can totally sense those feelings though... I agree with the previous poster. Take a break.
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get counseling BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING YOU ARE GOING TO REGRET THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
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Find out why the child is crying and take measures to make it happen less. If the childs a baby what do you expect her to do? Babys cry. Live with it.
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How old is your daughter? If she is a newborn please know that this feeling will not last forever and is very normal. I felt the same way about my daughter for about the 1st three months of her life...she is now 8 months old and is the greatest joy in my life...even on days where I feel the worst she can always make me smile. If you have post-partum depression please see your doctor and do not be afraid to ask for help...you have no idea how common this is. For your daughters sake...please get help!
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Do what everyone else does... take her out into a public place and sit at the table next to mine so I can enjoy the screaming too... (I see you reused the picture from my post) If she is too young to understand language you'll just have to put up with it (and so will everyone around you), but if she is old enough to understand language it is time to set boundaries and make her understand that some behavior is unacceptable and will lead to discipline... (don't even start with me granola!)
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I am the father of a little girl that is not mine.The crying is HARD but shes a child.Rember they grow up fast hang in there
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instead of resenting her why dont you be a real mom and comfort her you selfish b****. Its not all about you anymore. loser!
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Next time use a condom & save a child from having to deal with your obvious selfishness!
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I resent your daughter for crying as well. And another thing whats with people bringing their crying ass dirty kids into bars? That is why I'm pro choice!
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Give her away. You're probably a shitty parent anyway!
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Get help...you are too selfish to have a child right now...see you soon on Maury.
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maybe you resent yourself for having children and are reminded of the mistake everytime she cries...
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don't blame you...that's why i never had kids :)
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people are so stupid with their comments! look raising kids is hard..everyone responds to diffrent scenerios diffrently. Just try and do your best, know that she loves you and is counting on you. Your her Mom.
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If that child in the picture were mine I'd find out why she was crying and try to comfort her. Sometimes kids cry for no reason but the girl in the picture looks like shes in pain or something.
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Here's an idea: Take the time to figure out why she's crying...
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Um..Post pardum?
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if she is a brat thats your foult. maybe its for your attention coz u cant be bothered with her?
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Kudos to you. This equals a secret. All the dopey "secrets" about how much someone loves their child equals "Aren't I sooooooo special?" And "Everyone in my life is sick of hearing about my child so I'll tell some strangers." There's many more people out there like you. They are just in denial.
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My advice to you is to start smoking weed. You'll feel much better about everything. Trust me.
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