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I am engaged to a black man who is currently in jail. I am white and my family is going to hate and diss own me once they find out. He's really not bad at all.

I am engaged to a black man who is currently in jail. I am white and my family is going to hate and diss own me once they find out. He's really not bad at all.

 
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Yeah because as we all know, only good people go to jail. Maybe it was just one mistake, but if you know hes been there before or he keeps going there, get out as soon as you can.
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Are you dumb?
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Speaking annonymously and from personal experience I'll say two things. One, he's in jail for a reason, you should take it seriously. Two, what your parents/family think of your spouse will have a HUGE effect on your marriage... (I am NOT a racist, but it's true...)
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Maybe you should reconsider finding someone who is not in jail........think about it!
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why is he in jail, what did he do.
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You are being led by your emotions and not your brains. When you marry someone, you marry into their family. Check out the statistics on black men and STD's, and black men who leave their families. Staggering. Plus, if he's in jail he probably now has a record, what kind of provider will he be?
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if it really is the color that attracted you then go find another black guy. He is in JAIL!! no matter what they tell you..good guys DONT go to jail.. Sorry!
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My husband spent two yrs n jail. I ment him much later..but he tells me about how men use women while they are n jail. If you really want this guy, concider breaking it off AT LEAST till hes out and on is OWN FEET.
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Unless he was framed and the Innocence Project is working on getting him freed, leave him.
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Ya stick to your great morals!! He's in for being a good guy..right? Get a grip and find a guy with some value for himself and you too!! remeber once in never out... good luck with that.............peace!!
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It doesnt matter if hes black or white. What good can come from a man in jail what happens if he goes back. Are you going to wait for him again. Dont waste your life on someone who dont love no one but him self. Had he loved you he wouldnt be in jail right now. Life is short dont let your emotions get the best of you. He had a chance move on. Or soon you will find out that you have made your prison. Once that happens there no escape when your a prisoner in your own mind.They say prison is hard time served. Nothing compares to the hard times that await you if you dont make a change for the better. ILL pray that you see the truth of what were trying to tell you.god bless you and good luck
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As everyone knows, felons make the best husbands.
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you stupid b****. hes in jail, but hes really not bad at all!!! he got yo white ass hypnotized, must be that 13 inches of love underneath his prison jumpsuit...i am in the law enforcement field, not specifying what, and from experience, have seen countless, COUNTLESS, situations just like this, some with girls i know. 99.9% of the time, the black guy is a total piece of shit, no job, drugs, beats her, already has 12 kids to 12 other women. i have a good memory when it comes to this, and as soon as my daughter is old enough, will be having the speech with her about what i see every single day at work, and what the consequences will be if she chooses this so called life style. you are right about one thing, your family will hate you, dis own you, and you will literally become the black sheep of your family..but good luck with what you choose, who knows, maybe you can pop out a few more oreo's for the world to enjoy...enjoy the beatings and forced sexual relations with the 13inch black snake, after all, felons and or ex-cons make the best husbands...enjoy welfare, food stamps, family reunions when your probably the only white devil there...you make me sick, and if this isnt enough to help you change your mind, heres an example for yo dumb ass: OJ and Nicole Simpson...but then again, you are already tainted goods, so good luck gettin a white man after that...WHORE
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sounds like a GREAT guy-- grow up-- what's with you white chicks? is it cool or something to be with a black man? I would disown your dumbass if you were my daughter, not just because he's black, but because he's in jail for an extened amount of time
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as Mr T says- "I pity da fool!"
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I have a relative in this situation. She has completely f***ed her life up. Now she has kids by the dirtbag and they are turning out just like him. Go ahead, asshole. Stick with him.
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If you can't accept where they put the trailer to, don't accept it at a'll
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Black not bad, jail...are you out of your freaking mind?
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to the genius - too f***ing funny - hommie learn dat shizzle you claim da rep
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Fail
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Hahaha, nothing like another dumb white chick with no self respect or brain! You will have a fabulous future I am sure. LMFAO
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White trash....Why would you expect to make good decisions? You don't deserve your family anyway.
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sorry but he is not an upstanding individual if he is in Jail and you know the saying once you go black you dont go back it is actually once you go black we dont want you back......
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you said DISS LMFAO rofl rofl rofl
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Not into interracial myself especially when the black guy is in jail.
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Oh, the things that Bill Clinton let happen. Since, he is the one that first thought it a good idea to say Ebonics is an actual language. So, I quote or poster, "DISS OWN." To f***ing funny. I have one suggestion, G.E.D!
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Really?
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theres a fool born every minute
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I can't believe this ?? I can't believe this, a Black man in Jail ?? you're kidding , right ??
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if a man can't bring you up in life what do you need with them. My black friend said what do those white women want with them we don't even want them. Please reconsider want better for yourself get your education
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your a disgrace to your race
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Run like hell. Jail speaks loud and clear. LOSER
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Listen to your family - they are trying to help you! Do you think any black parents would want their daughter in a relationship with a guy in prison? How about doing something to raise your self-esteem?
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I hope like hell that a troll wrote this!
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