happy now?
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move on
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iam/was a married man who had this predicament. it isn't worth ruining the family over a fling, trust me, id like to take back what i did sometimes, miss seeing my kids every day, and the b**** i cheated with left me after 7 months...
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Break it off. Your heart is big enough to love another man who is worthy of you.
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Now you know what you'd like in a man, so take that to heart and move on to someone who thinks you're worth his Real life.
I know, I've been there too, It used to be a fun little thing but it got old.
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Been there done that and after many years FINALLY got smart and realized I wasn't the only one he had on the side. Chances are you're not either.
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for one thing i dont believe in GOD. i never said i was beter than her to begin with. and it is MY life. i dont force him to come to me. if anyone is messing up his life at home it is him not i. maybe it just excites him to have 2 seperate lives going on. i dont really care. and sure i am selfish for keeping it going and guess what, i dont care either. ya know what else i just cant bring myself to care about? what you or any other people thing. it is my situation and MY life not yours. so why dont you find something more worthwhile to spew all your energy on. rather than b**** about someones secret on the computer. and i think if he was using me all it would be abot is sex. you dont know what goes on so who are you to say whats what? your the one who needs to get a life. i have one and im happy in it.
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You can't be happy, if you think this little of yourself...be honest.
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does it really matter what anyone but myself thinks anyways? NO it dosent.
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if he loved you as much as he loves his wife, he would leave. he spends time with you because it's "fantasytime" without the realities (i.e., responsibilities) of a "real" relationship. i'm sure you do everything you can to keep him happy & what does he have to do for you? sex? pleeeeeeease. try being a real human being with Real needs and demands and watch him Run for the door.
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Simply put, you're a FRIEND WITH BENEFITS nothing more nothing less.
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The attraction to a married man is simple. All the sex and intimacy and no skidmarks to wash up! But she'll end up feeling shitty just the same.
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did you miss the part where i said i have no expectations?? that it is what it is? geez you make it sound like i dont know any of the crap you have written. did i say he loved me? no i didnt. did i say i want him to leave her? no i didnt. and for your info it is more than just sex for both of us. dont judge me unless your own hands are super clean, like youve never done anything wrong right? i doubt that.
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i am enjoying every minute of my life. there are times when i want to tell him if im not good enough for himto be with all the time then i cant be with him at all, but i love him so much that i dont want to never see him again. so i take it one day at a time and cherish all the time he does spend with me. others can judge me all they want. it dosent matter, its my life not theirs.
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OP...why do people who are cheating always blame the one sitting at home? That's them trying to rationalize what they are doing. There is no rationalizing screwing a married man. Maybe he's just a bastard and he's lying to you to get what he wants and lying to his wife so she never suspects. Things at home may be perfect and he just likes the sneaking around. You are ignorant for thinking that you are better than the wife...if she is so bad, why hasn't he left her yet????????? You people piss me off. This is not YOUR life, you are messing with his wife's life and most likely, kids if he has them. And you are just borrowing the life GOD gave you. You should cherish what??? the time with a cheater?? Please, Grow up, get a life, move on and find someone who is SINGLE!!!!! He is using YOU!!
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Of course he is lovable, his wife certainly thought so! It can only end bad...
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A wise monkey is a monkey who doesn't monkey with another monkey's monkey!
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OP-i am the on who posted. obvipusly if hes spending more time at my house then it would seem his wife isnt doing right at home or he wouldnt have stepped out to begin with. and as for him trusting me....iv been single the entire time and havent been with anyone but him. i have no expectations here. im not asking him to leave his wife and i dont think he would. when it ends it ends. it is what it is. and if he ever did leave her the answer is no i wouldnt be able to trust him, but i do know he isnt seeing anyone else either.
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and i dont need anyone to tell me about my spelling either im not retarded shit happens when you type fast and dont proof read beofr ya hit save
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I f***ed a married man for 3 years.Thought I loved him till I met my husband.Then I realized the married guy was a lousy f***.You just need someone to give you the f*** of your life to realize it's not love.I am 100% serious.
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well its been a year with him and i am in love with him. one cant control who they love. its not like i was out to snag me a married man, it just happened.
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amen to the last post
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homewrecker!!!
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f*** him suck him send him home.
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wtf is a commentment?
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one thing I've learned from this site....NEVER get married.
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I never understood the attraction to married men. I find it disgusting and selfish. Tell him to divorce her or leave you alone.
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ARE YOU MALE OR FEMALE?
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