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i have an STD but dont know how to break it to my spouse. it was acquired before me and her met but just now showed symptoms

i have an STD but dont know how to break it to my spouse. it was acquired before me and her met but just now showed symptoms

 
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It will probably be the hardest thing you ever have to do, but just be honest with her, and if she loves you then she will forgive you.
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Forgive him?????? It's not his fault he got a illness you f***ing moron.
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Umm, yes it is his fault he got an STD, that would be a sexually transmitted disease for all you jackasses that cant read. If he would have used a condom he wouldn't have gotten an STD. I was just saying she might forgive him if he was honest, moron!
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Now now, kids, calm down. OP, you should tell her ASAP because even though you've shown no symptoms until now, doesn't mean it wasn't transferred to her while it was dormant. She needs to get checked out. She's your spouse, which means she's committed to you enough to be able to handle something like this. Be honest!
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#3-You can still get an STD while using a condom. Most STDs aren't that big of a deal. You didn't do it on purpose, and you have been faithful. If your spouse really loves you, he/she will realize this and forgive you.
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she loves m eand its genital warts to fill yall in but still i used a condom and eveything, just thought all this time i got lucky cuz after i got it the girl said there was a possibility and i read up on i tand talked to a doc about it and was told that there was a big chance i didnt get it and the doc said come back in two weeks if any syptoms arised and they never did until now
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so now im stuck trying to think of a way to break it to her still we had a fight and broke up for 5 months and now we just got back together and i was faithful so i KNOW who i got it from but with the recent strain on our marriage im afraid shell levae me, but if it helps me any she got clamedia from the guy she had sex with when we were split up and got rid of it and i forgave her i just hope she has the same compassion and understanding that i have
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what is the std that you have? if you were faihful,then how did you contract it?
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For all who think STDs are transmitted only through unprotected sex, I also contracted genital warts while using condoms. This is a contact-region STD, not only bodily fluids. And yes, many are not that big of a deal, warts are treatable, and it's fairly simple. Hell, gross as it sounds, herpes is no worse than acne. Since contracting genital warts, I've been honest with my partner afterwards... as well as anyone who considered me in such a fashion, give them the chance to run... ... I've only had one person who turned me down. Most were respectful, took their time, and we took FURTHER precautions. Honesty's best, especially while saving marriage and rebuilding trust.
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so to da OP,you never answered my question,what is the disease you contracted?
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Does it hurt when you pee?
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Yeah, tell a lie to cover another lie! That ALWAYS works. Be a man and tell her.
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just be honest and tell her...you must...
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Best to tell her so she can be tested. Many women suffer more consequences from STD's than men.
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Take yous guys to a hot tub, and youll both have something to treat and blame it on.
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