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I love my husband, but I hate when he grabs my breast. It hurts. I find myself leaning away when I think he's going to - he thinks it's him. I don't correct him

I love my husband, but I hate when he grabs my breast. It hurts. I find myself leaning away when I think he's going to - he thinks it's him. I don't correct him

 
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You should tell him! If I were your husband and I was unknowingly hurting you, I would definitely want to know. Be honest. He should appreciate it. I would.
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Why do you hide things from him?
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Mine was the same. I made him go a week without touching my breasts. He learned. Now he touches the sides only until we use the mutual signal that more is OK. It takes work, but that's OK.
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^ You have got to be kidding! Mutual signal? Your husband should have given you a week to learn how to speak.
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COMMUNICATE!
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Are you serious???? Really??? You are in a relationship with a man that you are afraid to tell him this? WOW!!!! You should be able to tell your spouse EVERYTHING and if not then there is something wrong.
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trust me, if you don't tell him, he will think your cheating and cuckholding him.
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sorry to hear that...my man has magic fingers.
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Thank you for the encouragement - it truly helped. He no longer grabs them like he did. I sincerely appreciate all your advice. Thank you...
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COMMUNICATE Men are not mind readers
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Please, please, please talk to him about this, and any other little wedges that are driving you apart. I'm a man, and we can be pretty dense about things like this. I'll bet if you say something, his first words will be: why didn't you say something? Do it. It will get better if you do, and will at least not if you don't. Could be much worse.
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Anything you talk about in your bedroom with your mate should always be comfortable and confidencial. Communicate your likes and dislikes and he should do the same. Maybe he thinks you like it.
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YOU dont have to *say a word* JUST *pinch his tit* everytime he pinches YOUR as hard as HE pinched YOURS. He will learn VERY quickly lol
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Tit for tat.
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He probably thinks you like it...tell him that you don't!!!
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He loves you, and he thinks you are sexy. He just needs a little training so he doesn't hurt you while expressing his attraction to your naughty bits. Guys are not so sensitive there, so he might not even understand how it is painful to you. Like the others said, all this can be fixed with a little communication on your part. Believe me; he wants you to be happy with him. He'll do almost anything to make you happy.
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My wife doesnt like her tits touched either. Sucks for me.
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Tell him! He's your husband, you love him don't you?
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The tongue is a GREAT substitute for the hand. Sounds like gentleness may be the key here.
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Great way to destroy a marriage, idiot!
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