^^^ 3 poster up said it all: boundariesYou don't have to save the world at the risk of your wellbeing
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Join the club. people have been shitting on me all my life for the same reason.
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It would seem that those that think speaking truth is whining have yet to look in the mirror and realize that we are not whining... just telling people like you a truth you do not want to hear. YOU MAKE US THIS WAY...so who is whining - us or you for not being able to take the truth?
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You have to respect yourself. The most important word is:no. Only do for others when you want to, otherwise say no. You are the most important person... in your life.
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ur beautiful dude.earth needs more of u
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You don't have to be heartless to protect yourself from abuse. Just know where the boundaries are, and make sure everone else knows where they are as well. It's okay to say no sometimes.
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you are being heartless TO YOURSELF as well as to the people you allow to take advantage of you.
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i know how you feel....but i'm not going to stop helping ppl....soon as i do ,i'll miss the one that can't make it without someones helping hand...
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They murdered Jesus for the same thing.
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I used to be just like you, but then a switch flipped one day and I snapped, I only let people think they are taking advantage of me. I'm so heartless now, I don't know what I would do. Don't change, please don't change...
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Don't stop, there is a reason you do what you do, it comes from inside, just be wiser aobut how you help.
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I am now a heartless b**** because I have helped a drug addicted bastard and got treated like shit. Now I want to snitch on him so bad that he dies in prison. He screwed me and my son out of money, by whining and saying no one cared. Well, I hope the bastard dies......screw me once, my fault, screw me again...I SEEK REVENGE....
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You're not heartless. You're just a nice caring person. That's 5 x's harder than being like all the other losers in the world.
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It's not your job to be a white knight and save the world. Help those who are trying to help themselves. Use common cents and your judgment to guide you.
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"We can never help others without helping ourselves."
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I feel your pain my friend. with GOd as my witness i feel your pain
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I am the same way and sometimes it really starts to hurt and/or piss me off. I just try to remember that I help because I want to not because I feel I need to. That way you are helping for yourself first and the other person(s) second. No one can take away the happiness of helping others.
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Better to be pissed off than pissed on
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A lesson learned is a Priceless gain,if we can only take the Pain
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I recently learnt to say no. I'm so much more relaxed now.
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I hear you. Even in relationships I've been like that. I end up with women who have been hurt in the past
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