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i don't know how to get out. he hits me, emotionally abuses me. he's taken my entire life away...but i love him.

i don't know how to get out. he hits me, emotionally abuses me. he's taken my entire life away...but i love him.

 
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read the book "i hate you, dont leave me"
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You love the idea of him. Separate your mind from your heart.
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Get away before it is too late.
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come be with me and I'll take care of him for you. give him some of what he has given you, but just one thing don't go back for more
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You don't love him. You have battered-wife syndrome. You either get the strength yourself to leave him or get family support...but either way, get out!! Battered-wife syndrome is like being addicted to hard drugs. You think you need it, you think you can't live without it, you will go through withdrawls...but once it's out of your system, you will re-gain control of your life and realize you are so much better without it(him).
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real men dont hit women. he should have his balls cut of and fed to him. thats of course if he has any.
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Anyone that stays with an abusive partner deserves whatever they get.
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He dose not love you. Get over it get out or he will kill you. I know I am doing life in prison. Because I killed her, Why wouldn't she just leave.
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You are addicted to the drama. The avg abused woman leaves their mate SEVEN times before they either DIE or finally leave. You choose.
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When its time you will just go. I did. and I left with the close on my back. He has never touched me again. I love him still and think of him often, but have moved on. There are alot of good men out there. Dont be afraid of leaving, just do it!
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I saw domestic violence at its absolute worst in San Diego. There was death involved and I AM TELLING YOU TO LEAVE. Pack up and go away. If nothing else find a woman's shelter and seek advice. LEAVE,LEAVE,LEAVE. I was one of the guys that assisted the woman and kids......LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE. I still have nightmares.
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Leave him right now tonight, go to a shelter and get help. Nothing good ever comes of this. There is help out there and lots of people who understand.
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I was you 6 years ago! I finally got the nerve to leave and had my whole family come over while he was at work and move me out. I cryed myself to sleep for a few weeks because I loved him. Now I am married to a wondeful man who would die before he let anyone hurt me. Lookin back now I wasn't in love with him at all I was just scared. They never stop it only gets worse. Get out please, I did it so can you...
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most battered women have one thing in common....they just dont listen.
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YOU ARE AFRAID OF THE UNKNOWN, you know what to expect from him and have no self-esteem. GET HELP FROM PROFESSIONALS BEFORE HE KILLS YOU OR YOU DO IT YOUR SELF. BEEN THERE, DONE THAT. MOVE YOUR a** NOW !!!
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snap the f*** out of it!!!!
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saying something as stupid as you just did, makes me want to slap the shit out of you. YOu better get yourself some help, becaus you are just as mentally sick as he is.
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Mom is that you? Take it from a guy that grew up with a mom like this get the f*** out, he is dead now and I still hate him.
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I will read in the paper about you and how he killed you.............GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN.Please I don't want aboutyou.in the paper.
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CASDA look it up, they can help!
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I was in the same situation. I didnt think I could live without him. I left and lost everything I owned. Now 4 years later im happy with a man who treats me like a queen and loves my child as his own. It gets better .. my abuser is stll around but I choose to ignore him
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I suffered for 22 years in an abusive marriage. ANYTHING is better than where you are sweetie. Walk away. You will see how peaceful your life will be. Good luck. There is always hope! I know it.
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Think about your children. My father was an abuser. My mother finally left when her last child was a teenager. He died earlier this year and my mother was truly saddened, that only 5 of her 11 kids showed up for the funeral When asked...I told her the truth. I only came to the funeral to support her, not because I had any love for him. I'm 50 years old.
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You will find better happiness once he is out of your life. NO woman deserved to be abused no matter the situation. Leave now and forever be happier. Good luck.
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weak, simple minded men hit women, i pray you dont have a child by him. life is short, there are many other soul mates outthere
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A gallon of gas and a lighter should do the trick nicely. Ever see the movie BURNING BED. Go rent it, get wasted, set the bastard on fire, claim insanity, get off free. That is how you do it.
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First time a man hits a woman,it's his fault.from then on it's the womans.take the blame or leave
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It isn't love you feel...it's a trap. I've been there. It's like you are in a room with no door. If you could just find the door you would get up and leave. Please reach deep down inside yourself, find that strength and leave! He will kill you one day if you don't. I kept my ex-husband away with protective orders and many calls to the police. He will get tired and go away. He is weak that's why he preys on you. I left with two babies and my life is amazing...there is life out there... please go be apart of it!
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