I'm not trying to be mean but to be so into another person that much is stifling to say the least. You need to find out why you need someone so much. I had this happen to me and she was so angry all the time because she thought i should be in to her like that or i didnt love her. Good luck
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I am going through a similar situation. I'm sorry for your pain.
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you are stifling your OWN dreams and visions by hanging onto pain. I did the same thing with my x husband who really loved only himself, and 9 years later, still DOES! so....do yourself a favor and let him go!! someone will be so much better off with YOU than without you!!
I love myself and what i stand for! :) You can too!:)
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I feel your pain, I know what it's like to love so deeply to lose yourself. To only feel complete with that person.
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sounds like you need to be in therapy still. he's an a******, get over it.
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Yep, I hear ya!
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robt frost
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It's easy to say "just get over it" or "move on" or even the dreaded "you are stronger than that" I know, I am going through the same thing. It has been almost a year, and it hurts almost the same as it did when he left. I just get up everyday, put on my smile, go through my day, knowing it WILL get better...It has too right?? Oh! I won't take him back if you don't!!!!
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I wish you were the girl in my situation. I would take you back in a heartbeat... I am sorry Ness.
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Get hold of yourself girl. It's over he's moved on - you have spent countless $$ on therapy. Get up - respect yourself for yourself - and get back out there and find someone better. They exist - we all get wrapped up thinking we can't do any better or that our ex was so great. Yeah, he's great but he's with someone else.
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you got it easy, you're still alive. I had a good friend pass away from a blood clot and her fiance laid a rose on her chest before she was lowered into the ground while crying on his mother shoulder... he got re-engaged 8 months later...
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I was in the same situation. He married the woman he left me for, they had a child, then she left him. After 5 yrs he came back to me. We are married with a child of our own, and I hate him!! I only wanted him because I couldn't have him, and I was insecure. It would never be the same even if he ever did come back. Be grateful it ended and find someone else. Seriously!!
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