if i've said it once, ive said it a thousand times....Marriage IS the leading cause of divorce!!! If you like women, fukem, there is no law that says you have to marry them.....yet.
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I have the same problem as you but at least it's my own kids! I wouldn't put up with that shit for 2 minutes from step kids! Run dude run!
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b**** slap everyone
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Dude! I quit dating women with kids cause I didn't like the idea of raising and taking sh*t from kids that weren't mine. Found a woman with no kids, married her and now take sh*t from her and MY kids! It'll be over someday. I hope.
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I left my ex wife after raising her kids to adulthood. One was a week before her 18th birthday. I was making $70,000 when I left. She is back on welfare. I never look back.
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I will never date a woman with kids ever again. When I first started dating my wife I was fine with it, I even thought I was doing a noble thing.
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Yeah man go!
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People wont change for you, ahve you guys ever expressed how you FEEL without condeming someone for making you feel that way? Like hey you know when you guys start to yell at me it makes me feel disposable I dont think I can take much more of this..In a calm non-condescending tone? Have you treid to do something to wake them up to thier behaviour or are you just taking it? You have to at least give them a heads up before you bail, And I dont mean by yelling at them they they are being a b****. not only is communication necessary in ANY relationship it's the WAY you communicate that matters most.
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Sometimes stepkids are ok and some times they aren't. I'd leave her ass.
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2 up. Dude, the punk is the way he is because of how you describe your wife. She is an enabler. I can't stand those types either man or woman. My best friend is married to a skank who was a total enabler to her kids. Today she is watching her daughter recover from cooking dope in a spoon and sticking pins in her arms. Her son just left to prison for four years. In the end though, I think that stepson will do fine after the Marines finish with him. If he gets kicked out don't let him come back into your house. If your wife lets him, you should leave instead. I posted fourth from the t
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continued from 1 up... I posted 4th from the top
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thanks to everyone. And what makes life harder is I am the only one from my family or friends that lives in Phoenix, AZ here. Most of my friends from here are through my wife's family.Also I am white and they are all Asian.
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What is her nationality?
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Uh...Asian? Did you miss that? Anyway, OP, I do hope you will not allow this to continue. They have joined ranks and I hated seeing them attack my Dad. I was a Daddy's girl and really wanted to slap my mother in the face for treating him with such disrespect. There are those of us out here who know what you're going through...It doesn't matter if you're in a city alone. There are plenty of other people out there and once you regain your self-respect and confidence, you'll go out more and meet people, better people. Hang tough. Don't be their victim.
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Who yelled at you PRECIOUS?
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I wasn't being a douchebag. It is how they are. I get treated like shit almost on a daily basis. 2 up hit the nail on the head. A b**** raising b****. Even though I have been with this family for about 7 years now, I am treated like an outsider and yes they do power up by joining ranks. I do just about everything for all of them and it seems like it just doesn't matter to them. My wife acts like I am disposable and the stepkids don't let me forget that I'm not their dad. And as a stepdad I don't really have any authority over them. Crazy stuff.
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Dude, leave. I have been in the exact same place as you are for 11 years until I filed for dicorce 7 years ago. You are never, ever going to win against this family. They have closed ranks against you and they get their strength in numbers. Shock them into reality by filing for divorce. My ex thought I would never do it. What does your wife do for a living? Mine ended up on welfare after i dumped her. I am not proud of it. Just indifferent. Once you get out of this, approach women the right way next time when you start looking for a steady again. When you meet one you like spend as much time as possible together without intimacy for 6 to 8 months. Just study her and her family. If she is f***ed up you will know by this time period. Then you can take it to the sex level if she has her s hit together.
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1 up. Excellent advice that I used regularly in my past. I met the finest, kindest, and most respectful woman ever this way. It definately works. When sex gets involved it clouds us from seeing the red flags we should be looking for as we come to know them, or we are too quick to overlook the red flags as something less important than they really are in reality.
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come to me :) I'll have you forever
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Check this out. My 18 year old stepson is about to leave for boot camp for the Marines and he is walking around openly disrespecting me and his mother, yelling back and backtalking.I want to punch hi in his face and I asked my wife to say something to him before that happens and she is telling me to just be patient and all this and that. We are having a going away party for him and Im helping him and being nice with him and he does that shit?He is acting like a little kid when we go to the store its mom can you get me this, mom can you get me that, his girl is there. He gives an attitude when his girl is there right in front of us. I asked my wife to talk to him about it and I told her I am being calm and patient but if he keeps on that he and I will have a major problem
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I am a woman with kids and I would not disrespect my husband or allow my children to . That is BS . Sorry that you are going through that .
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Biggest mistake I ever made in my life was marrying a woman with kids. Divorced now and date childless women only unless the kids are grown
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Leave the gun, take the canolli.
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You should have thought about this BEFORE you got married, idiot. MARRIAGE IS NOT DISPOSABLE!!!!!!!
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okay just a question.. were you being a douchebag, when you got yelled at by two different people, or was it UNDESERVING..seems kinda ODD two differnt people would "jump your shit, so to speak" when YOU were doing NOTHING! so if you think you should NEVER have to answer to anyone no matter what a db you are.. YOU should be alone ~just say'n~
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1 up. I don't know about that. Often times a bi*ch will raise a bi*ch and one will feed off the other. Sometimes it's just perceived, but then they power up by joining ranks, right, wrong or otherwise...How do I know this? My mother and sister used to do it to my Dad. My mother tried to get me to play along. I wouldn't.
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^ If you've seen this before this is something that should have stopped you from marrying. Blame yourself, you knew what you were signing up for, making other people look bad because your nuts have not dropped yet and you can't control your household just proves your own weakness.
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