were u born stupid? no one should ever hit you. pick yourself up, move on. or one down, your gonna be six feet under. grow up before its too late!
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No one has the right to hit you no matter what you do or say. If he/she really loves you they will never hit you. You need to love yourself enough to leave and find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.
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ass.....whuppin. asswhuppin comin' up.
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No, men shouldn't hit women, but women should be aware that EVERYONE has a breaking point. Women that provoke and provoke a man till he reaches his breaking pointth, then scream ABUSE, to me are like someone taunting and hitting a dog till it bites them then screaming that the dog must be "put down" because it's vicious.
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I experienced 18 years of abuse at the hands of my husband . I too was led to believing it was my fault . Then came the night he almost ended my life . Please stop it now it only gets worse over time . Ending the abuse does not always mean letting go of someone you love . It means stepping up and refusing to let it continue.I wish I had the courage a whole lot sooner . Life could have been so much better for our family . My husband is not a terrible man he is a good man with a monster lurking inside.And once he saw I had enough and would not tolerate anymore the violence stopped . Life is too short to live in fear of the one that supposedly loves you . It takes making changes on both parts . I had a friend once that gave me the best advice possible " Never let a man hit you , but don't put yourself in the place where you know he will " . In other words be careful about what words you allow to come from your lips . If you know it is going to set him off . I changed my ways of speaking to him and life is much better now . 24 years married now.
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1 up WOW!! 2 up- exactly! P.s. I hit him first, we basically wanted to hurt eachother so bad because we were each hurt so bad, it was the dumbest cycle ever. I know people will say we need this and that and we Are this and we are that but I dont care, I am not crying abuse and I am definitely not playing a victim I know my role in this and we both need to stop. He agreed and I know he is genuinely sorry I know how f***ing dumb I sound too but that doesn't mean I am dumb, We have been together 12 yrs he has never done this before we were also drinking which we will likely not do to that point again. I just need to tell someone without someone I know knowing :D Thanks for the vent people.
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6^ Depends on you're definition of good, now don't it?
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this is the thing:there's the nuisance, picks on you.then you defend yourself, but the nuisance gets mad at you for standing your groundand not stooping to that level, then you DO,go to That level and the nuisance cant take it. well that creates a problem: the nuisance's friends and family dont like it either, so THEY pick on you and make Your lifeimpossible. then in some cases there's a tragedy, let's hope there is none in your casebut see that's the point. if a tragedy does occur it creates an even bigger problem.that effects a lot more people than just thenuisance and you. it involves both sides offamily and friends, all because ONE idiotcouldn't f***ing take it.you see where im getting at? you 21 century dumb f***?it's an even bigger picture than you've displayed.thats why i gave her NICE advice.i told her to find a way to get him to stop.period.
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No one has the right to hit another man are woman! !! If he can't handle things he should walk away if you can't you should walk away. If you change the way you talk because he might hit you well then he is still controlling you. So to the woman who said you changed the way you act around your husband he is still abusing you, you can't say are do as you feel so you don't get hit, that is control not love. And you are worth more then that. People that abuse make you think its your fault are you should change. But I'm sure he is happy but are you.
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^ Everyone has the "right" to do whatever they f***ing want. Women who were in abusive relationships in the past will sometimes seek those out, and they will instigate until they get the abuse they want. It's a two way street, honeychild.
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^yea sometimes I think maybe I deserved to be hit, becasue I am such a fcuking b**** sometimes, but then I think he may have a problem if he can't control it and can't just walk away or leave me. We abuse eachother and we both need to leave but something is stopping us?~~~~FEAR!
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You're in a battering relationship, and it seems to be what you like, so until you want to change, don't complain.
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8^ No man can ever be called a "good Man" if he hits his wife.WHY? Because good men do NOT ever hit their wives.
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I'm not tellin you again bich, bring me a sammitch!!
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^and a cold brewski.......SLAP!!!! i said cold, dammit cold SLAP SLAP
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^ Like anyone would take you two kids seriously, suck a dick Nancy boys..
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Nancy? Nancy Drew?
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Nancy Drew sucks dick?
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You've been brain washed.Now you think it's YOUR fault that you are being hit.
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People are gonna fight, the longer you've been in the relationship, and the more passionate the love, the higher the odds. This is reality. More people go through this now, than don't. I'm not saying it's right, but people are imperfect, egotistical, temperamental, and frustrated. I got punched in the face one time, threw him into the dinning room table, and put a hole in the wall. We were both wrong. What did we learn? I learned how strong I am when full of anger and adrenaline, he learned, not to lay a hand on me again.
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if it happens again, don't. don't be an idiot. believe me i'd know. you'll find a way to get him to stop.
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6 up, get a grip. What separates a boy from a man is a mans ability to walk away, no matter what is coming out of the mouth a lady who is obviously inferior, and that he is in a relationship with. Men are people, not dogs, who should know right from wrong.
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^2 up And yes we have entered the 21st century...great story.
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^it wont happen again. I have seen my reflection in the mirror and in my husband and I hate it, I have to change, and I will. I cna't say He will change or you will change but I will, and the only person I can be totally reponsible for is myself and the actions I Choose to make. This wont happen again I will never lay a Hand on anyone. I also don't feel brainwashed though I guess people who are brainwashed never think they are, kinda like how people are brainwashed by the media...no I am not I could give a f*** less what other people think about how I live my life or how I look, so I dont think I am brainwashed.
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