Ok. Let me get this straight. You begged the guy to propose? Why are you begging? The guy should propose when HE IS READY. NOT WHEN YOU ARE READY!!!!!!!!!! What the f uck are you trying to do, get divorced before you are even married? If that guy is pressured into marrying you, I guarantee he will be resentful and eventually you will be divorced. STFU and be grateful that he loves you.
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Your post makes it clear why he hasn't
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If he is stringing you along you, or drinks a lot, you need to dump him and find a new guy... Who is doing the cheating, or is anyone?
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Yeah, begging works. So does crying and whining which is how my latest wife got me to propose to her. Fuck my life now man.
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Who's cheating? You or him? Regardless, if you guys can't keep it in your respective pants while you're dating, what makes you think a f***ing certificate and a priest/judge is going to make a difference?
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If you want to get married so bad, why don't YOU propose to HIM?Fucking cunt.
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U both are 2 young to get married. He obviously is smart enough to know that. Why dont u go to college, get a degree. Let that be ur focus and goal then c if u still feel the same when u graduate.education will also help ur baby, not just ur future and his
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OP here: i am fresh out of highschool (19) he is 21. i am his first. i KNOW he wants to be with more girls. and the thought of marrying 1 dick is kinda scary. HA. i know for that comment alone i will hear "thats not true love" "your too younge, what your doing is stupid" "your and idiot" and what ever the hell else. but save it and give me some solid f***ing advise. i know what i want to do means a COMPLETELY life changing thing and it takes hard work, trust, loyalty ect ect but if you are married. dont sugar coat it. Do you regret getting married? and if so, why? please try to remember i am NOT married, i want to be. try to think about how you felt in your relationship when you became engaged.
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^ You've got decades to find true love. Don't rob yourself of that.
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^ you ARE young and seemingly have a lot to learn. For example, proper English. I could give you advice as I've been in your shoes and heard all the same things. You will ultimately do what you want. Whether it is the right choice, only time will tell. What you learn through your choices is where you'll gain true insight. I would recommend focusing on your self and what makes you happy. That way you know what your strengths and weaknesses are as well as what you will/won't accept from your significant other. Go to college, broaden your horizons. You have freedom of choice right now that has not been mingled with future life choices.
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^^ Thank you.
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to the op-imho,pushing the issue reeks of manipulation (conscious or not) to get your crush to want you. your fiancee may smell this as well
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ps^ marr iage is the leading cause of divorce!
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OP here: no-one is cheating, but i got drunk and told the guy that i have liked since i was a kid how i felt. he feels the same. (which to me felt like cheating.)my man and i have been together for almost 6 years, we have an almost 2 year old son. i am tired of saying "my boyfriend and our son" so i said i needed a change, after all 6 years is a decent amount of time. He says its too expensive, HE wants a big wedding... we cant afford a $20,000 wedding.. but thats what he wants.. i want a CHEAP wedding!!!! I KNOW THAT SOUNDS CRAZY COMING FROM A WOMEN!!! anyways, he says "its too expensive" .... im not buying it. i feel like i had to beg him he says he is on board. i dont want to pressure him, i dont know what to do. i am not bored of US, i am bored of the boyfriend/girlfriend and we are parents.
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^ He wants a big wedding, translates into you'll have to leave him before he takes you seriously.
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You sound like you are in highschool. Why are you pinning you're happiness on him? You should step back and think about what is truly making you feel the way you do. You're lying to yourself and that pit you're digging will only get bigger.
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SPEAK CLEAR ENGLISH YOU DUMBASS. NOBODY CAN REALLY EVEN UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT!
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I'll tell you one thing, keep what you have because no normal man is going to go near you.
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Thank god for abnormal people.
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