He should take care of your needs even if he doesn't need it. Get out while you can. It won't get any better.
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So you found a Eunich? BFD. Now you have someone to hold your purse while you try on clothing.
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Hey, idiot. Get out.
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WTF? Are women born stupid or is it something they work hard for over the years?
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then get out of the situation. duh.
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contact me and I will fix that, you can have me AND any other man you want. Yes, ANY other man you want!
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No sex drive to woman may be.
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Thanks for the advice
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It takes Two to Tango my dear. Perhaps you should initiate things more often. Or maybe it`s your adult children living at home with no jobs that are driving the two of you apart. Just sayin...
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i try to "tango" all the time but i cant dance by myself forever... well i guess i can but not forever for that i might as well be single...
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No you didn't. I married him!
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3 up you are a first-rate idiot. Of course I try to initiate things with him. And I'm child-free by choice so you're wrong on that count as well. Maybe you should put away the keyboard and let the big girls handle it from here. Just sayin'.
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Some insight please. I contacted him under a false id on one of his myspace type accounts (his profile reports he is looking for relationships and he won't change it). He doesn't mention a girlfriend, only says that he is separated. Do you see that as a red flag or as me being overly concerned?
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Well OP, if he's making excuses and calling you superficial, he doesn't want to have sex with you at all. Find an equal, dump this relationship.
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Oops I meant 3 up...
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Friends without benefits and not allowed to date others? Control control control. Find someone with some passion, get out while you can, it won't imporove.
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OP here. I have definitely considered that he might not be attracted to me. I have asked him about it and he says he is but is having stress right now. However, I also get the impression that this won't be changing, as he says things like sex is not important to a relationship and I am superficial to think it is. I will research further.
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im in a realtionship w a man that is great doing a lot of things except he has NO sex drive... a 1 to 2 months can go by and im as dry as the desert... i love him and it would break my heart not to be with him... idk what to do???
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2 up. If little to no sex is a deal breaker, than you do what you must. You could also try talking to him to see if he will meet you part-way. If you are okay with little to no sex and you are happy with him in all other ways, than don't do anything but love him.
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ODD pic for a sexless relationship....why not one at a library ?
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Love and sex are two different things, but part of passionate love is sex. A relationship where one is always wanting and the other is never interested is doomed from the start. Even if you don't get out right away, there's no reason to play by his rules. There is an ocean of men out there that would love to help you with your situation. You have the power, use it!
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It is quite hard to believe that he has no sex drive. Maybe he is not sexually attracted to YOU? Do some investigating..you will probably find where he is concentrating his sexual behaviors...IF ITS NOT YOU WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU BE WITH HIM? Also, if you do your best to investigate(computer usage, cell phone, what locations he visits) and everything comes out clean..MAKE HIM GO TO THE DR. TO FIND OUT WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIS HORMONE LEVELS AND SUCH..if you love him and want to invest patience AKA effort....get started, update us..I wish you the best. ;)
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You don't sound too thrilled with him (even besides the no sex part) from that post. Does he have any amazing redeeming qualities? Do you think you can't do any better? If not, then GET OUT!! My ex husband was the same way. Let men like them be with frigid women (we all know there are tons of them out there!), not with a normal, warm-blooded female like me and you who actually WANTS sex! I would never in a million years stay with someone that I was that sexually incompatible with. Good luck, and definitely keep us updated! :)
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I think I got his sex drive. I have enough for 3 or 4 men. I can't stop it or turn it off. I'm horny 24-7
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2 up. I was thinking the same thing. If he is not interested in his lady, his penis may be pointed in a different direction. If his actions don't seem to be in a cheating way, then maybe he has Low T.. I hope for OP that she will not have to choose to leave over sex, seems like a easy problem to fix if he really cares.
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