Op here- he was physically abusive to me in our relationship, and has no problem yelling and screaming at her over minor things. We went to court and he lied to them about his finances so that he would not have to be responsible for her financially. His new gf (who lives with him) began harassing me and I had to take her to court when she riled her friends (that I don't know) into threatening my safety, and accusing my husband of disgusting things. With his actions and past behavior, he doesn't deserve to be an active part of her life. Oh and to the person above who said that I don't have custody for a reason- I do. I have 50% and my lawyer was pushing for more due to the domestic violence but couldn't gain any ground because even though he admitted it openly to both of our lawyers, there were no police reports to prove it.
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2 more here...planned the wedding for a year, took the marriage for granted. If people planned their marriages as good as they planned the wedding, might have lasted, oh well !
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their is a reason you dont have custody... live with it
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This is the reason spouses die by murder.
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Don't raise that kid with all the hate you have in your heart or that kid will be one screwed up person before reaching adulthood!
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IF you love your daughter then you want her to have a healthy relationship with her dad and you do what you can for that to happen even if you do hate him.
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It isn't about the health of her daughter. It is about revenge to her dad. Regardless what it does to her daughter.
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Since you're so fully aware of family court, you must have been asleep the last 5 years when "shared custody" has become the norm. Oh, I guess you mean only in the cases where YOU were involved....Shared custody IS the new norm and most judges will opt for that in the majority of cases. Sheesh. Talking out your ass and passing judgment against someone. So typical of idiots.
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Aahhh The mother that uses the kids as weapons. So Cool. (There is a special place in hell for you)
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oo, put on your tinfoil hats - the grammar police have arrived! (1^)
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1 up. Ease up on the poster above you. It is the most they can contribute to the post.
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So, what did you do to contribute to his abuse? You must hsve been setting him off somehow.
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I hope you choked when you posted that stupid comment. Op, NO one on this earth has the right to harm your child and you have a responsibility to protect her. And you don't even have to respond to the stupid ass asking what you did. Their own ignorance is showing. Eitehr way, you do what you must to keep your daughter safe. Piss on what these other people think! You haven't given us the whole story, but kudos to you for keeping your daughter safe. Yelling now, hitting later. It's a pattern and it ALWAYS emerges!
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You have no right to keep the child from their dad because YOU think he should stay away. You have a responsibility to see to it that your daughter knows her dad. That is HER right. Stop playing games with your child's head. Face it this is really about revenge toward the father.
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I am fully aware about family court. If the mother has only 50% shared custody there is a hell of a lot more going on in this situation that the OP is telling us. She is here looking for sympathy, obviously, but she is a contributing factor to the head of her kid being screwed just as much as she accuses her ex for. If the truth was known, I bet the posters would believe this child should be taken away from this mother
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poster sucks
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hell my ex only gets his 4 days a month.. There is a reason I have full custody.. He's an alcoholic. Don't judge this person's situation.. somethings take time and money.
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My brother is an alcoholic and works all the time. He went to every game his kid played in and paid for their college. Alcoholism is no reason to ban a parent from their kid
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1^ how stupid!! Let's hope your kids never HAVE to ride in a car with a drunk parent!
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1 up: I did. Many times. You listen to too much television. If we would get away from our idiotic puritan views like Germny has drinking would not be a big deal. In Germany 16 year olds can drink in a bar. In America, someone has to be 21. But they can be sent to war at age 17. Yeah, don't let hose kids drive with a drunk parent.
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hose kids = males ?
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