looks like if he dont get with the program....the show will go on without him...well, he was told in advance !!
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It sucks to be you.
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you are acting a typical bItCh, you knew ahead of time that the man didnt want children even though you do, and now that you have a situation where you are either going to get pregnant on purpose because you are selfish or break up with him which you should have done in the first place when you found out he didnt want kids. you are leading him on sweety, not the other way around! stop wasting his time and move on already.
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Not at all fair to the child coming into the world to have one parent not want them and the other parent selfishly just want what they want. Think it over.
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no, he lied to me. im gonna dump him, and find someone who doesnt make me feel shitty for wanting the most basic thing in life.
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The world is over populated, take on a new purpose in life. If you feel you MUST raise another person to take up precious resources, then adopt a kid whose mom couldn't take care of them, and who hopefully got sterilized soon after she had said kid. I wish you the best.
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^I think she meant she would find another man to have a kid with. She said A child, not the child, dumbass.
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good, you and your whole family are weird anyways...
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now I thought some more, and i'm not sure just yet
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I made up my mind. I'm keeping my baby.
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Get another Charlie
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These are things you should discuss bfore you get involved!! Would save a lot of problems
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So your selfish desire to have a kid makes for another fatherless child to be cared for on food stamps. How thoughtful of you....Stupid ass!
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You Go Girl!!!One more us tax payers to pay for..
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Kids are awesome.
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^^Yeah, kids are awesome. Then they become punky little teenagers and ruin a parent's sweetness love they had up to that time
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^Teenagers are awesome too. You have a bad attitude.
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^ true...after an ass kicking !!
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I've thought it over. It's over.
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adopt a dog instead
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Mr. Happy go Lucky says: I began my family of 7 at age 17. Now I'm 60 and wish I had fathered twice that many. All of my children are successful.
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Mr. Happy go Lucky, will you please sthu already? Thanks. Anyway OP... are you sure he lied or did you just believe what you wanted to believe or thought you could change his mind? You know something, as a parent myself I have learned an extremely hard lesson... I 'wanted' to be A Parent, knew it was a job, knew it wasn't just about me having a kid and fullfilling my needs and I hit the jackpot and got twins. It's frickin hard being a parent and I went into it consciously knowing it wasn't about me. Now you keep talking about what YOU want and what you don't now realize is that it is NEVER about what you want and once that child is here, your wants will always come second unless you just want to be a shitty unconscious parent. Grow up, stop being so selfish and self involved and only have kids when you are able to consider the feelings of another human being besides yourself.
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I'm 61 and never had kids. No regrets what so ever.
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put a pin hole in the rubber !! POWWWWWWWWW
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Nothing in your comment makes it sound like you are selfish (you may be, you may not be- I have no basis to know). I am a female, and I don't like children or feel the need to have one. I am open and honest about that whenever a relationship I am in starts to get serious. It is frequently a "deal breaker." It is unfortunate that your partner was not so open with you earlier on, but any reasonable person realizes that the decision to have or not have children is important and fundamental in a relationship and not to be disregarded as easily as the other posters suggest.
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