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I am in a new relationship and he is an amazing man... but I cant stop thinking about you, about us, and the way we used to be. I am still in love with you.

I am in a new relationship and he is an amazing man... but I cant stop thinking about you, about us, and the way we used to be. I am still in love with you.

 
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well, pencil legs, the grass wasn't any greener, was it ?
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Tell him to his face
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Three sum!
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Sorry, but stupid c@#$nt. And I am calling you that as a Woman. What the Frack are you in a new relationship for. Poor Man, I'm so sick of hearing people doing this. DONT get into a new relationship if you're not over this other person. UGH!!!! So cliche!
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Wow, I can relate. So you moved on but can't get this man out of your heart. This happened to me long ago. Truth is...I still think of him from time to time...no matter who I am with. But it takes two to make a relationship...not just one. That's the bottom line. Try not to punish your new love for being a good man and comparing him to the man who is gone. We must value good men who are good to us. And we must let men know that even though we are strong women, we still need them. Things got all out of whack with women's liberation. We perhaps need to balance those scales back a bit..
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love the one you're with
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That's life. Life is strange! And it's messy. And we all make mistakes...that's being called Human. But whoever 'you' is...'she' still summoned up the courage to tell you, did 'she' not!
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The question is are you still in love with her?
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2^ No, she's pretty much a coward.
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Men are typically wimps about this...especially if he fell hard for you...so you'll probably have to make the first move.
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...I love you
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I want to see you.
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That's sad. I wouldn't want to sleep with someone that wanted to be with someone else. Think most people would feel the same.
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YEs and most peoples excuse is I don't want to hurt the person I'm currently involved with. Don't they realize thay are hurting them, by not allowing them a chance to be with someone who would put place them first in their heart. It's actually just being cowardly..and fear of being alone.
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Former guy is just a memory. You're probably not actually in love with him anymore.
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2^No, they don't realize. People are so disconnected, they think it's possible to hide things and compartmentalize their lives while also being close to someone.
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Taking time helps for you to know if he is just a memory or the love is real. I figured out I was in love with my ex when I was in a new relationship. I eventually got out, and stayed single. I'm still single and I'm still in love with him. So it is the real deal and I did send him a letter. I hope the best for you!
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But you never told me you loved me until I was with someone else!
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Go be by yourself for a few years until your head is straight, stop messing up the lives of good people and fix yours before you look for love.
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Maybe the other guy still loves you, too? Tell him. Send him a note in the mail. It's old fashioned, romantic, personal...Old school.
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Go with the guy that doesn't do drugs!
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2^Not OP but as an "old" school, I did this. He never responded.If you don't care about someone, the "new" school is just to ignore them completely I guess!!
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Touche!
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The letter idea...I did this too. And at least I know I at least tried. I don't think I could have ever forgiven myself if I hadn't.
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Go with the flow. Be a conduit for the universe and see where the energy takes you.
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You didn't love me, you loved the wild monkeysex
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wild monkey sex wow i thought i was the only one she was swinging with from the chandilear next time we are going to try gorilla sex she promised
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If you were truly still in love with this man, you never could have gotten into a new relationship. Let him go and be happy with your new man.
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^Agreed. Let the old guy go and concentrate on life with amazing new guy. It'll be so much better than what you used to have anyway!
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Girl that is so unfair to your new lover.Put yourself in their shoes.You are pretending and using them.STOP IT.
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