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Thought I no longer loved her, told her so and she left. My heart and my mind lied to me.

Thought I no longer loved her, told her so and she left. My heart and my mind lied to me.

 
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My husband did the same to me....and I filed for divorce. Before it was final, we realized that we still loved each other, and it wasn't "HIS" issues or "MY" issues that caused us to drift apart..... it was "OUR" issues....and we now work on them everyday.
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Bet she is seeing someone else. This is a frequent thing that happens even when people divorce. You no longer are in love...but when one starts to see others....you feel that you MUST have them back. But it doesn't work.You may even get back together but it will only be temporary. You must move on alone.Don't try to see what they are doing. If you don't want or love them ...let them go. That is the only fair thing...don't dangle carrots and try to get them back just because of ego.
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Sorry to have to say it but... you deserve the pain for not listening to your heart in the first place. Pretty sad that people think they can fall in and out of love so easily these days.
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her vnew rich boyfriend won't lie. too much, anyway
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The funny this is that I am sure that she waited... and waited... and waited. Then she stopped waiting for you and found a way to SMILE!! Classic!
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It happens...give him a break, people get confused. Sometimes when people get back together...it works and sometimes not.....that's life. But if you do try to get her back, you better for sure KNOW you truly lover her!
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^ Best ADVICE ever!!
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Start by writing her a letter...with several edits ofcourse and go from there. Do it or you'll regret it.
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It sounds like you have a lot of soul searching to do!
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Hopefully she has moved on from you.
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Remember, what you are experiencing is separation anxiety. Hang in there and eventually you will understand(emotionally)what turns you off about her.
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^His problem is that he's still attached emotionally. He's got low testosterone though and couldn't sustain the physical relationship (in other words it wasn't his mind and heart lying).
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So did she...women lie to.
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I'm a dog whisperer. The one on the right is lying.
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=(
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If you are going to go back make sure YOU'RE READY! Don't mess with her feelings, specially if she is finally at peace with it
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You get what you deserve. Think before you speak. She's probably found some great guy and has moved on but now you are reaping what you sowed. Confusion and lonliness.
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^If she's already found a guy chances are he's not great at all.
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Your HEART and MIND lied to you? My guess is, it was your DICK!
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I don't think they lied...I think you are afraid to be alone!
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