Or adoption. Did you see Juno?
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This is what happens when kids do not have parents who can teach them values and what is right and wrong. Not good.
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I agree. Parents are at fault. I raised my ex's two kids. When the daughter turned 15 my ex started letting her wear suggestive clothing. At 16 she was letting her lay on our couch with boys she knew a few months. I always made them get up. I tried to tell my ex that the daughter is too young and immature to know how to control her passions. Not to mention the boys she was with. It was a constant point of contention with me and her mother.It came to a point where I just said 'Fuck it". I divorced her without ever having a regret. I was making $68,000 a year. After the divorce my ex had to go on welfare. Six years later her daughter had a child out of wedlock.
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wait, if your friend is 13, are you 13? If so WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS? WHAT THE HELL IS A 13 YR OLD DOING ON THIS SITE? WHY, WHY WHY?
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I swear parents need to put parental controls on computers and make them fool proof. Guaranteed no matter what path this girl chooses it will happen again before she is 18. It's so sad and such a waste.
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Abortion is a good idea here.
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The fact that she has a CHOICE to make is important here.....Fuck the pro-lifers!
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? ^ are you OP?
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Put the f***er in jail if he is 26. If she was willing, put her away too. Sick bastards.
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Disown her? That is all?
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^Abortion should be mandatory for all 13 yo mothers. Go ahead and TRY to argue with that logic.
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Lose lose with this problem no matter what they do. No winners.
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I had my first child at 17 as a senior in High School. I'm a happy mother of three now, still doing what I love. Some can make it. I busted my ass, but I still made it.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA to you too.
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i think 4000 a month is enough idiot. OBVIOUSLY. i would LOVE to have more money EVERYONE does. but hey, i don't need to prove myself to clearly a bunch of dummies who wont have faith in a teen parent who is TRULY doing well. Fuck you all. karma will come around and boot you all in the face. and in the future, when i am doing very well in my career, and you cant take care of your kids, i will be there to sweep em up an take them to someone who cares. Cheers.
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NO, YOU ARE THE REAL DUMMY HERE SO STOP ASKING FOR US TO FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR STUPID TRAMPY WAYS AND DO SOMETHING WITH YOUR LIFE. TAKE A WALK YOU POOR LITTLE BRAT! CHEERS TO YOUR SISTERS FAT ASS.
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You don't need to prove yourself to us? Well why are you trying to? It's very simply, because you screwed up and you know it. Oh and stop with the karma baby talk bs.
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Teenagers having babies are complete drop out losers. You will never be able to do what you really wanted to do with your life unless your goal was to just have babies before you really lived your life. You still can't even wipe your own ass you dumb kids.
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thtat fathers like 26, her mothers been trying to disown her and her father isn't there, she LOVES this baby, and even though she's thirteen it doesn't mean she doesn't love
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HAHA. My man, my mans got a good job and after I finish my schoolin, I will work at Burger King too. Support yourself fool. Hmmmm, enough money to buy food and pay the bills. Is that enought for you in life? If you did not f***up, maybe you could have become something better, right? Maybe not. Just how much is a good paying job to you?
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Two up.... Are your parents proud?
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(lucky one) i am going to college in the spring to be what i have always wanted to be. so i am going to be "better" also i have enough money to have save a substantial amount of money. and we have a monthly income of almost 4000. so as YOUNG PARENTS. i think we are doing alright. but thank you for trying to bash me in every way. and obviously my parents are not proud i got pregnant young, but teenagers will do what they want to do whether they have rules or not. either way it is better to have rules in the home then not.. am i right? and what because i am 18 i MUST be stupid. no. i have made stupid DECISIONS but i am not stupid. thank you for that though. HAHA
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^Don't take it so bad. Stupid just means you're inexperienced and don't realize it. When you do realize it, you'll look back and wonder at your own stupidity. If you were 40 now, you'd know this to be true.
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One up is correct. You are stupid and don't even know how stupid you sound every time you open your trap. Almost $4000? Lot of money right....
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You are going back to school to learn what? How to keep it in your pants? Someday, you might grow up but I wonder....
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(the lucky one) i don't think i know everything! i know that i have a lot to learn, obviously you didn't read my whole post. sometimes i wish i waited, but like i said it just happened, and we are dealing with it the best we can as young adults, i am 18 he is 20 so really we are not that young. Back in the day being married at 17-19 was normal!!! now being married at 23-25 is normal! So hunny. before you run your mouth go back, read the whole post (all 3 of them!) and come back and give a real opinion. i wasn't trying to glamorize being a teen mother, nor was i telling this girl to go tell her friend to HAVE the baby, but don't you agree that she should deal with her consequences? instead of pretending thinking abortion is birth
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control or adoption is another way out.. i was raised to know if i did a wrong there would be consequences to my actions, whether i like it or not, i didn't take the easy way out and abort or put my child up for adoption, and as for the person who said that just because the girl is young the child wont be loved.. THAT IS CRAP! and clearly you have never had a child! Personally, i could be having the worst day ever, my son smiles or laughs and i cant help but be cheered up, it is not a chore, or a "job" to take care of your child and love them unconditionally. you are just suppose to do it. and do it to the best of your ability. and do none of you remember what it is like to be teenagers? i understand, things have drastically changed over the years, but its just that.. THINGS HAVE CHANGED! sex is a natural thing, its going to happen.. whether we like it or not.. that is why it is OUR JOBS AS PARENTS!! to know what our children are doing and who they are hanging with. i WISH i would have had more rules growing up, its true kids WANT rules and structure, but some people are oblivious to this concept, this is why our juvenile
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detention centers are over flowing. and drug dealers have so many young clientel.
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No (The lucky one) you are young and stupid. Getting married in your early 20's is not normal today and back in the day, "as you said" people were even dumber and had nothing better to do. I guess some things never change. It just happened.... What a BS way out. We still have to pay for your goofup. I read what you wrote and I do not need to go back and read it again. STOP HAVING SEX YOU DUMB KIDS. Do something with your lives! P.S., I am not your "Hunny" and I'm very glad for that. While you were goofing off screwing around, I went to school and built a good business at the same time. By age 30, I no longer need to work. You people are too young for this. Build your life before you get involved in this never ending crap. Where are your parents?
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I think that if more people waited until they had their heads on right, which would be after school at least, there would not be so many screwed up people today. I waited until after college and have no regrets. I think if I got involved before my brain matured and my life settled, I would not be in such a good place as I am today. Yea, sex causes alot of problems if you are not ready for it....
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HAHA! how do you figure you are paying for my "goof up"?? My man has a good paying job and as soon as i am done in college i will too. we have a good income and live comfortably. we have enough money that we can pay bills buy enough food for the month AND stock our pantry and by nice things for our selves. and YES his job IS LEGAL!
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am on my way to graduating, with 100% attendance and B average. I will also be going to college come spring as i will be done school early. YES i do agree that there are a lot of teenagers that need to think of other things then stealing, drugs, parties and sex. but personally, i didn't plan to get pregnant. it just happened. and for the better.. i was on a horrible path. My kid straightened me RIGHT OUT! I also understand this is not the case for everyone, i have seen a few girls just be extremely dumb about the situation. but there is a reason for everything .. correct? yes being a mom at 13 is going to SUCK! But the way i see it. If you *think* you are old enough to have sex.. you better be old enough to deal with the consequences of your actions.
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and if you cant deal with 18 to life with a child and a $100,000 going to a child. then A. DON'T HAVE SEX! B. USE BIRTH CONTROL. C. USE A CONDOM. Also, at 13.. i was NOT having sex. My father would have F*CKING FREAKED OUT! and he was no where near happy when i told him i was pregnant. and he still wishes i would have waited.. but he cant help but love the little man. he also knows that my sons father is a great father an is very good to me. I guess i am lucky. Either way to the original poster : I think you should NOT talk her into an abortion, this is HER decision. and you don't know.. it could happen to you one day.. i used to always judge teen moms.. now i am one. what comes around goes around. and the last thing she needs is people judging her. it will happen to her for the rest of her teenage years anyways. so stick by her and be her friend, and learn from her mistake, or don't learn from it and ditch her, you will then be looked at as a horrible friend. either way. its really none of your business.. your not the one who has to go through the hard decision of living the rest of your rest of your teenage years worrying about diapers/formula and baby clothes. or thinking about the fact that you killed YOUR OWN CHILD. Either way. i think its nice you care. but you need to leave it to HER to decide.
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^One of the lucky ones.
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Oh, it just happened? We are ignorant? Oh, I did not plan it? Oh, we have our own place? Oh, I am a teen mother and a far better mother than the other nit wits in my town? That is because they are are stupid know it all teens like your sorry ass self. You stupid kids. Shame fools like you are going to run the country someday. Oh wait, that will not happen because you are too busy being stupid and having more kids before you know what life is really all about.
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STOP HAVING SEX YOU LOSER PUNKS! You kids think you are so smart right?
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9 from the TOP. My husband does KNOW! We keep it honest. That was a good try, but you are WRONG!!
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This is what America has become.
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Shame shame, trash, stupid nothing better to do, trash.
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THE CULTURE OF INDIVIDUAL RESPONSIBILITY FAILS TO ADDRESS THESE KINDS OF PROBLEMS. WE GOBBLED UP THE TECHNO WIZARDRY IPAD SHIT THINKING IT WOULD MAKE LIFE BETTER FOR EVERYONE. WE SUPPORTED A CULTURE OF MILITANT AGGRESSION ABROAD AND THEN WE HID CHILDREN BEHIND FENCES AND DOORS BECAUSE THE VIOLENCE CAME HOME. WE BOUGHT ANY CONVENIENT FOOD THAT WAS SOLD EXPECTING THE GOVERNMENT TO WEED OUT WHAT WAS UNSAFE FOR US. WE HAD MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO DO THAN WORRY ABOUT WHAT WE WERE EATING AFTER ALL. WE HAVE NEVER BEEN HONEST ABOUT SEX AND WE PAY THE CORPORATE MEDIA TO SPOONFEED US SEX SENSATIONALISM. WE GAVE THE CIA AND FBI THE MISSION TO KEEP US SAFE AND MOST DON'T KNOW THEY MANUFACTURED THE CRACK EPIDEMIC AND STILL MOVE DRUGS GLOBALLY. WE ARE THE STUPID TRASH AND OUR ANSWER FOR THE CONDITION IS TO WORK AND GET A HOBBY CALL EACH OTHER BAD NAMES. BRILLIANT.
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^^^Well said. It is what the United States of White America has become. And they want to blame foreigners for the mess this country is in.
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2^ or........a couple of young kids wanted to feel how it felt when he put it in
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EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU PEOPLE ARE IGNORANT!!!! i AM a Teenage mother! and NO its definitely NOT NOT NOT easy! I am in a school for teenage mothers. There are a few who have had kids at 13 in my class. My best friend is ONE of them! and she is a far better mother then some of the nit wits in the town i live in! I am 18, i have a 9 month old son, still with the father, we have been together for 5 years, we have a great relationship, we have our own place, he has a full time job, just graduated. i
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I did not even think about this stuff at that age. I also wonder how old the father is? No life, no values, no teaching right from wrong. A real shame and now this girl will be just another drop out and another one to take care of....
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Stupid damm kids can't find a hobby. How about reading and schoolwork? Everything is about sex.... Stupid ass kids. Now they are stupid ass losers.
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Having the kid will be a long hard life for her. Because she's so young it's going to be hard on her parents as well. Killing the child is NOT the answer. It's her choice and her parents choice to make together but if I was her I'd keep it and take the hard road. If she kills it she'll have that hanging over her head till the day she dies.
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Getting rid of the kid is wrong, however, making that little snot kid take care of the child is no better. I would guess that the parents are messed up as well so that may not help. It is not her choice because she is not able to make the correct choice. Think about it. If she was able to make the correct choice, she would not be in big trouble now, right? Kids........
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how old is the father?
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abortion is better than raising an unloved child (the only 2 choices for a narcisist, but adoption is the best option.
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I came out pregnant at 13. My mom and Dad were not around and I made some STUPID choices. I still thank my mom for being around when she took me to the abortion clinic. She realized that she wasn't there and changed. I realized how little I knew about everything and started listening. Was it tragic? Yes. Do I regret it NO. I am married with children and I know for a fact it was the right choice for me. Good luck!
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Hey one post up, does your now husband know about your "stupid choice"? I would guess not right? If he did, what do you think he would do? Kick your dumb ass out. Always hiding crap from your men right? Or, at least you think you can hide things....
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Well, losers start out young and stay losers for all time.
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Who is the father?
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How many and what colors?
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This crap really pisses me off. At that age, my friends and myself only thought about food, sports, movies, games and keeping good grades. What is going on today? The father must be older and took advantage. I was over 20 before I even really thought about doing it. Kids do not have anything better to do or to think about, like their futures.
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