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I have a child with my first cousin and only my parents know.

I have a child with my first cousin and only my parents know.

 
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I have a set of cousins that did the same thing some years back...we all know and have known just didn't really want to talk/think about it. Good luck to you.
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now thats a secret! what happened to the child?
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He's with me and healthy
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I'm the mother and that's all I want to write. Maybe I'll add more to the secret later.
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Hey be nice, This was a very hard thing to admit-at least the child is alive, not aborted like so many a****** sluts do now.
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I have to give you the thumbs up
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having children with a close relative only causes problems if there is a known genetic problem or condition carried by both the parents. If not, breed on! =)
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I've recently wondered how many of my pregnant classmates were subjects of similar behavior since they didn't seem to have boyfriends.
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This is messed up!
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i slept with my cousin once, we were really high on heroin, and it never happened again.
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When i was young i met and fell in love with my 1st cousin. He is and will always be the love of my life. We have an amazing son that is the light of my life. He has chosen to live a lie and deny everything to everyone including himself. Sad thing is he wants a son so bad and only has daughters.
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Yeah, might want to keep that little secret to yourselves.
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cousins are GREAT in the sack.
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Huh?
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insestes is bestest
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Yeah while incest isn't a good idea as a common practice, it doesn't really increase the instance of genetic defects unless you're talking about immediate family. Some say that in first cousins it can do the same, but most studies show that its either very rare or not statistically significant. For instance, the European nobility picked up quite a few genetic defects based on their institutionalized program of interbreeding. But that's generation after generation of it, not just single instances. So, cousin lovin's not really accepted, but then is also not going to guarantee any problems at all. Oh, and grats to you for keeping the baby. Specially if it WAS a case of rape, you're a good woman. Most people tend to just discard such babies as inconveniences, only considering their own rights and not those of the babe. You're child will know you love him even more for it if you ever tell him the skinny.
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The poster prior to me is correct. The level for genetic defects isn't increased all that much. Repeatedly practicing within the same gene pool can eventually increase the chance for defects/retardation significantly.
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I suspect your cousin knows as well.
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i myself would have made twins with my 1st cousin but she didn't want to!!!!
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I had a sexual relationship with my cousin, starting when we were 22 and 21 respectively. It continued for 20 months, and we even moved in together for the last 15 months. Both our families knew, and as we were both Mennonite, there wasn't any huge taboo within the family, as we both had relatives who got married and were cousins. What broke us up was the reaction some of her friends when they found out. In the end, we couldn't agree on a city to live in (I was in Vancouver and she in Winnipeg). She married someone else, and they had three kids together. Her husband and my wife of ten years knew all this. My cousin got divorced last year, and her youngest is 17 and plans to move out later this year to go to school in Toronto. I plan on visiting her sometime after that.
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UH WHATS A COUSIN
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this is crazy, can any one say Mackenzie Phillips, hello, incest is wrong, having sex with family is wrong, I agree you must be from kentucky or west virginia, if this is an acceptable form of behaviour I wouldn't want to be accepted
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I would have bedded an attractive cousin [or aunt] in a heartbeat when testosterone was rampant, and socio-religious taboos were recognised as nonsense. The sexual urge is a powerful stimulant. Nothing to feel ashamed of, unless you irresponsibly created a life you had no intentions of caring for.
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Ok, for anyone giving this woman grief, saying it's messed up, or that incest is wrong, or that she is nasty and is going to rot in hell, give her a break. None of us know what the circumstances are. It could've been that she and her cousin were really high or drunk at the time and they regret the huge mistake they made. And, as many of us like to think, we are not immune to pregnancy just because it was 1 instance of unprotected sex. And, why would anyone knock her for keeping the baby. It's her own beliefs/morals. If she felt abortion was wrong, then that's her decision. I feel, it's a persons body, they can make whatever decision they want to make. Abortion in neither right nor wrong. And, finally, if you are very religious and take the Bible seriously, then, in theory, we're all a product of incest. The Bible states that Adam and Eve were the 1st man and woman. It states that they had 3 sons, Cain, Abel, and Seth, as well as other sons and daughters. So, in theory, the human population has grown to what it is now from the interbreding between Adam and Eve's sons and daughters. Who knows, Cain, Abel, and Seth may have even been doing their mother.
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Oh man am I turned on!
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im proud of you for admitting it and keeping the child. is your cousin good looking?
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Uhhh...GROSS!!!! Are you from Kentucky?!? How disgusting!
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nasty
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How I hope you are a troll.
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