If something as trivial as this upsets you this much, you need significant psychological help. By the way, in case you hadn't noticed, anniversaries and birthdays mean nothing much for guys. Like most things, it's not about *you.* Guys are just wired differently.
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I understand your hurt . I have been married 22 years and my husband is just like your BF . Inconsiderate of your feelings . But if other aspects of your relationship are Good don't let this come between you . Just tell him how it made you feel and hope he does something special next time .
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Until you're married, you don't HAVE an anniversary.
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Anniversary for what? When you met? Your first date? Get real... you're not married to the guy so you can't get mad at him for not getting you anything for a made up silly immature anniversary that's obviously only in your head. Also, if it was a one year first date thing and he never mentioned it then he obviously doesn't feel the same way about you.
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Wanna know what id troubling your relationship? Sit down and make out a list of all thae things that bother you about him. Then make up one about all that is good. Have him do the same then compare notes and make a call about whether it is all worth it.
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That's nothing. I had reservations in the city for our 10 YEAR anniversary and he asked if he could play a show instead (musician - not paid). I had to cancel the reservations and go watch him play... again..He's gone. I got rid of him. I'm MUCH happier now.
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Get the hint!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I made him a photo album. It wasn't anything big. Just a little something that took some effort. It was our 1 year anniversary to when we started dating officially. I wasn't like heartbroken... just wanted any kind of effort. If he would have got me a pop and a candy bar... I would have known that he put some sort of thought into it. He remembered though, ill give him that one. I was just venting. Thanks for the responses.
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He is a Cheap Cocksucker, Tell Him.
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^He is not. He probably really likes photo albums.
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It is a big deal if it is important to her. Just like what is important to him should also be a big deal... Tending to each others needs and desires ia a simple and effective way to keep the love and romance in a relationship. 2 way street..
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Actually the coco-loco highway is supposed to be one way only.
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You care for him more than he cares for you. Spending a month of your ONE YEAR together making him something is pretty over the top.
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~~~don't pay attention to the haters.Marriage has nothing to do with the highlights of our lives.
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DTMF!
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That sucks! Dump him!
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Don't read too much into it. If you two are happy together, there is no reason to let this upset you. As many many others have posted, it wasn't a birthday/wedding anniversary, what was it supposed to commemorate? Tell him how you feel and move on.
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....what are you...13 ?
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Sweety, it is really not a big deal in the bigger picture. Believe me I have been married for 5 years, and my husband does remember our anniversary, but it's not what he buys me that counts. I could care less if he buys me anything, as long as he says I love you and is there to spend time with me I am happy. Just be happy that you guys have made it a year, that should be more then enough. If you get really emotional about the small things he won't stick around much longer.
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Stop telling her that it is not a big deal, it is a big deal. I hate that guys like that have girls and guys who are nice to girls are not apreciated.
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^^ Believe me there are worse things then not getting flowers for an anniversary. so it's not a huge deal. and just because a man does not get you flowers or chocolate does not mean he does not appreciate you. I am so glad I dont get all emotional over things like that, that is why my husband appreciates me, because I dont get like that, and act like a child.
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boyfriend? Wake the f*** up. husband, maybe. boyfriend? what is this, 5th grade
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