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After I lost our unborn child, I blamed you for wishing her away.  I'll never forgive your cruelty.  I slept with your best friend to get back at you.

After I lost our unborn child, I blamed you for wishing her away. I'll never forgive your cruelty. I slept with your best friend to get back at you.

 
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Yelling at me to "get rid of it" isn't just "wishing", We already have two children together. I slept with him once, he was the only other man I have ever been with in my life. One time. And that makes me a skank? One time in my life I made a terrible choice, and I'm a skank. Glad to hear your perfect.
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Ever hear the saying "two wrongs don't make a right"? At least learn from your mistake.
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Well, was it good?
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I learned. I have to live with the guilt. It happened a year ago and I still cry almost everyday. I can't escape it.
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wow- you guys have issues... She's suffering from the loss of her child.. So she slept with the best friend -Big deal.. there are far worst things she could have done..
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We all do things out of anger that we one day look back on in shame. It happens. Forgive yourself. You're human. Move on.
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I'm sorry for the loss of your baby. Obviously you were in pain, confused and turned to someone. It sounds like your husband made you feel like you couldnt turn to him, and that is so sad. But no, cheating is never right. Sad situation for the whole family. How are the other kids dealing with the pregnancy loss? Perhaps try family counseling for all of you and marriage counseling for you and your husband. Good luck and ignore the idiots who insist on commenting with "skank".
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slut ... you just wanted a reason to spread ... didnt you
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IT,S CALLED A HATE F*** DID YOU TELL.
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just leave him and be good to yourself
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Oh my God people...how dare you judge this woman when the real person needed to be judged is her a** hole husband! He told her to get rid of their unborn child...someone should tell him that if he is having sex he should be able to take on the responsibility that comes with it! If not keep it in your damn pants....that and this woman is hurting...a man would never understand what it is like to loose a child...God did not trust them enough to carry them in the first place!!!
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why does anyone have to judge at all? It sounds like a very confusing and emotion filled situation- loss and love are hard.
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She should wish her whoring self away to join her little jelly pile of cells.
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you slept with him..enjoyed it and it past...don't worry about it......now your meani husband....keep your eyes open.......wishing death on an unborn kid.....not good!
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This sounds like some Jerry Springer shiii
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Of course you know he'd probably f*** any of your friends if given the chance. Even the fat one. LOL You did the right thing honey. Keep f***in' his friends, maybe I'm one of them and you'll wind up f***ing me too.
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Infidelity makes you a skank. Definitely. The fact that you find it justifiable is horrendous.
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You are a low life. Get a life and grow up. Your boyfriend and his friend are low lives too. Must be a lot of inbreeding going on in them there hills.
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I wouldn't call you a skank. But your definetly sitting on a time bomb. You can chance it, but if he finds out, it might end up better if you told him yourself in your house than him finding out through his buddy in a fight. I don't judge people, but usually where there is smoke, there is fire. Nobody eats just "one" potato chip, do you know what I mean?
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he has more problems than a cheating wife! his best friend was willing to screw her? the guy needs new friends
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Misery loves company. The only person who can change your feelings in this matter are YOU. Take some initiative.
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The men responding are jerks. Abortion is the bigger issue and the man who said he loved you but wanted you to kill your child, well, he's the skank. Ditch him.
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you were just confused...why does it always have to be the best homie..y couldnt you just f*** a total stranger and not destroy your husbands friendship...you skank
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I would suspect the fear of having a third child and the added financial burden was the source of his "wishing her away" He was just afraid, someone needed to reassure him that it would work out.
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Apparently, the man with whom you slept was NOT your husband's "best friend".
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You are just looking for an excuse to blame someone for something. Your thoughts are fantasy and manipulated in your mind. The reality is, you just had a miscarriage and it was not on account of anyones wishes. It was a fact of life and a process of nature. It happens to many women every day. You then believed the mentally concocted "wish" theory and used that to validate your having sex outside the marriage. What a complete waste of the human brains power of reason.
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You did his friend cause you wanted too, own your actions,so your hubby is a jerk. Leave.
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"wishing" wont do shit you f***ing nutcase.
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He told you he didnt want a child. If the role was reversed and you didnt want the child but he did what would his options be? I am sorry for you that you lost the child but I am sorry for him he is married to a lying whore.
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You are a useless cunt........it is your fault for having a faulty womb....not his fault that you lost it....I hope he f***s his co-workers on a regular basis....he deserves the treat...
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all of that could have been avoided with birth control
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He wished it away because is was someone elses bastard, not his. Good for him, hope he leaves you before you get knocked up again.
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The husband is the one with real problems. He has a cheating whore wife, and a best friend who will screw his wife. Wow, the 2 most important adults in his life are both selfish sluts. Terrible!
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you should have left him and filed for divorce and moved away before you hopped into bed..
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Why dont you just kill yourself you whore...you never f*** the friend....blow your brains out...your unborn child is lucky to not have a whore mom like you. Die Bitch
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if you need to get back at him again, i'm available:)
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well if your lucky maybe you got knocked up again,try to hang on to this one,k?
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He didn't want a child, but he wasn't the cause of you losing the child. You've punished him severely based on something that he said. You're punishing him for saying "Get rid of the unborn child". You slept with his best friend on top of that. You're pointing the finger, and it's very unfair, and the punishment clearly doesn't fit the crime... You shouldn't have children.
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