your not missing anything
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don't worry. life is always greener on the other side. especially when it comes to marriage! learn to pleasure yourself and find some really good friends. you'll be a lot happier IMHO.
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I Divorce my wife(10yr ago) and I slept around a little then I thought about it and just gave it up have not been with anybody in 4years now I don't know if it well ever happen now but I'm not going to try anymore some people are very hurtful at least the one I find. It's easier to stay alone :(
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i've not had sex in 3 years. And im STILL married. Married doesn't always = SEX either. i've lost 90#'s and am LESS sure of myself now, then i EVER was fat. so i can relate to YOUR fears.
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It'll happen in its own time.
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Sex is like riding a bicycle. You don't forget! It'll happen. Oh...and to the third poster: You are an a** HOLE!
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Hey, at least you're attractive. I've never had a bad lay. Some better than others, but not 'bad'. Oh wait! I'm a boy!
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How many rules do you have? (don't do that, don't touch there, don't lick there, Im not going to do that) You only live once go to it.
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Maybe your gay you have to try to find out
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Just go for it...bad sex is still better than no sex
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Third poster Are you seeing something I'm not I thought it was a a guy? Either way who cares if you are bad at sex! There is no bad sex! Ok there is but its better than no sex by a lot!
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If your a woman, you can never be bad, try to keep your eyes open... If your a man, who cares, look how women stress about being bad at it...not our problem
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im a guy and feel the same way
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Trust me as long as you don't just lay there like a dead fish, he will enjoy it. Get on top and bounce on his junk thats always good.
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I agree with the poster above but please also ensure that the "junk in the trunk" is clean.....
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...im afraid of the same but im also afraid its going to suck the first time back...miserably. Its been almost 2 years for me
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You'd probably be a jack-rabbit.
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I am married and have not had sex in 3 years. I dont what changed, I'm happy with my spouse and wonder what the hell? Do all married couples loose interest after 20+ yrs?
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I would love to pop your three-year cherry... and trust me, you can teach anyone to be good at anything ;)
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Yeah. It's been four years since my divorce. It's the hardest thing anyone will ever face. A counselor told me that the average time for a person to heal from a divorce is 5 years. I wish that I'd learned that before getting physically involved with my last girlfriend, who I began dating just two years after my divorce. Like me she was recently divorced. We suffered multiple breakups and reunions. Agonizing. I did everything I could think of to make it work. We were two hurting, broken people, who needed someone, yet still traumatized from the previous "betrayal", not strong enough to really support the needs of the other. Now that time has passed, I realize that we are much too different for it to work. The relationship with my very first girlfriend was very good. We could talk about anything. We were open, honest, non-judgemental. When we finally decided to make love, it was really wonderful. We always achieved ecstacy together, face to face. I think this was the result of the very good emotional connection that we shared. So I have learned that if you remain true to yourself, the good virtues that you believe in, and find a like minded partner, one who you can trust and openly communicate with. Someone eager to invest enough in your relationship. Then your mutual love will create the intimacy and passion that will warm your lives and sustain you as you grow together. I've learned that it's much better for us to pray BEFORE we get into a relationship, asking God to prepare us and ultimately bring us to our soulmate.
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i have been divorce twice and i am currently married for a 3rd time (6years now) i know it did not take me more than a week to get over it! by the time i filed for divorce i had had enough of the bullshit!
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go to the personals on CraigsList.org & start experimenting slowly... Have fun...
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Wait til you get to 7 - lol - I think I know you poster #3 - its like throwing a hotdog down a hallway...
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Don't force it and don't worry. Anyway, it all feels the same in the dark...
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All I can say is Think about why you dont want to its deeper than the surface You are afraid of rejection
sex is sex
love is something else learn the difference and you will be fine
Jim
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the last three years of my marriage we didn't have sex. i felt the same way. but it felt dam good when i did. you'll meet someone and when the time is right explain that you haven't been with some one in a while. If they care for you, they will understand.
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Maybe if you took a shower and got the f*** out of the woods, maybe you'd stand a chance. f***-tard.
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I am a young lady, and if I knew this of you in person, that would make me want you more. Trust that there are more women out there, just like me.
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The word f***tard is a gay word for sure
must be voting yes on prop 8
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I was married for almost 6 years and barely got laid...
Masturbation helps!!!
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Just jump back in and do it. I'll be glad to help if you need it!!
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I'd be glad to help you out, or in and out, with that!
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