OP here again. I've finally come to live with myself about this. Now if I could just stop sucking the little neighbor boy's dick next door I'll be okay.
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Leave it. Kids are kids.. unless you molested him in the pants then just chalk it up to being a kid.
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OP HERE: NOOOOO... All my friends had kiss somebody and told me that if I didn't know what I was doing it would be awful for the guy.. I was a young and stupid. I just feel so much guilt when I see him. I'd hate to think that I ruined him someway, somehow... As it is I am crying right now...
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You are overreacting. He was 5. Probably doesn't remember it, and if he does, he just kissed a girl. An 11 year old girl kissing a 5 year old boy isn't abuse. It's just kids being kids.
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Thank you.. my guilt didn't even allow that thought to come into my mind..
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Was it a FRENCH kiss, or a smack on the lips?
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That may be why he's into fat chicks now.
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I kissed my brother when we were kids. We knew we were experimenting- probably 5 and six. Its funny but we've never mentioned it. He's my closest friend-my soul mate actually. Were both married with kids- and never even gave it a second thought. Don't beat yourself up- you were kids! and really its OK.
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I kissed my sister with about the same age difference. I kind of feel the same way and wonder the same thing. I hope she doesn't remember.
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Um, it is fairly common for children to immitate what they have seen adults do. It was done without wanting to cause harm. Children themselves view their bodys as just a huge toy.I doubt you ruined his life....just harmless children kissing....
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It's kid's stuff - don't worry about it!
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10 or 11?? FORGET ABOUT IT!!! You were a child! Move on with your life already. Next time you see him, mention it casually and have a good laugh together, he probably feels awkward too, and would be relieved to get it in the open.
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That didn't hurt anything. One kid kissing another is ok.
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as long as you were not forcing him to kiss you then really it is no big deal....kids experiment and it's normal. what i am wondering though is were you ever a victim of sexual abuse? your reaction seems a extreme for a little thing like a kiss....maybe it represents guilt over something else that happened to you as a child?
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OP here: ^ I just never wanted to repeat the abuse.... Although I never did more than kiss (and never would) the guilt for what I had done after what I have been through was (and still is) more than I can take... For the others i know that it is your duty to comment stupidities on a daily basis. I want to thank those who took the time to honestly help!
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And I made out with a little girl from the apt complex, I lived in as a child. We would play house. Im a girl. I didnt think it was wrong.
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^^you need to learn that as a child you are not responsible for acting out sexually if that is what you were taught to do! get some counseling hun, it will help you work through it!
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