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 we find out that biological mom has tried to commit suicide twice in front of my step daughter and the and the judge still gave her overnight visitation

we find out that biological mom has tried to commit suicide twice in front of my step daughter and the and the judge still gave her overnight visitation

 
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The bad news is, she is the "mother", and whatever she does is OK. Justice is skewed in favour of females, as is custody. If that was the dad, it would be called "abuse".
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did the mom get help for this? because if she went to a doctor, got on some meds, got some counseling and took care of the problem then you need to lay off she is still your step daughters mom.
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^^^ Just because she is the "stepmom" doesn't mean crap. If it weren't for me taking over my husband's ex wive's role as mommy to his daughter she would be lost. Bio mom is still in the picture but she is not stable and the judge allows her to have visits with her daughter, "when its convenent for her only". Trying to kill yourself is one thing, but in front of a child is downright wrong.
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sad so sad. continue to fight for what is right for your step daughter. glad she has you!
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You know what they say, If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.
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read ur papers and ull find that it says that if u beleave the child is in imediate danger you dont have to let the child go.
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^^^ I did re-read the posts. The bio-b**** tried to kill herself in front of the child. What could be more emotionally abusive. She is a horrid mother, an emotional terrorist and useless waste of oxygen. A child will never get over that. How can you defend someone so utterly vile. A uterus doesn't make anyone right. She should get busy with killing herself alone so she doesn't do more damage. Better yet, just go the hell away and never breed again.
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Maybe your why the bio mom wants to kill her self , didnt you have ur own man and child to take care of? Why did you need to take hers?
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for all the haters... she was placed WITH us by childrens services. i didnt DO anything
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I'm glad she was placed with you and your husband, that's where she needs to be.tell me how u did it, cuz me
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we hired an investigator and have been in court for over a year
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Are You M**'s new wife -even if you the step mom it is really none of you business to talk shit at all. Obviously you have respect for you step daughter and he love for her mom- Grow up b****
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Who are you to call her a bad MOM!!! You need to be there as a step Mom and nothing else. Heed my warning.. If you don't back up the little one will hate you forever!
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The damned point here is that a bio mother is a train wreck. If that woman was a man, you would all be b**** slapping him for being a terrible father and telling him to man up. Well, tell this b**** to man up too. You don't have to have a dick to be a rotten parent. Women wanted equality, responsibility is part of it. Take this crazy wench's rights just like you would a man. How hard is that!
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Women equality???Maybe you should re-read the post because that is not what it says.. All I hear is a angry step mom...
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^So you missed the part about the suicidal biological mother? Stepmom is right to be angry. If the child isn't damaged already, she is heading for it with this disaster mother.
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The people above saying back off are morons! Continue to be there for the child. Just because you are not bio mom doesn't mean shit! Don't say anything negative about the mother in front of the child.Tell her how awesome she is! Get her counseling. Tell her that it's okay to have feelings and talk about things that upset her. Mom doesn't need to be biological,mom can be grandmother or sister or step mom. Sounds like you're looking out for what's best for the child and that you love her. Keep loving her. She is blessed to have you!
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