I understand. Both your adopted and birth mom LOVE you. They BOTH want you that bad! I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but you have TWO sets of parents that want you. Wow!
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Hey, my friend. I agree with the poster above. These people love you so much that they want you for themselves. I am sure there are other factors that cause them to disagree. But trust me. You are very, very fortunate to have people who love you so much. Tell both of them that never, ever again will you tolerate them bashing the other parents because you cannot take it. Tell them if they honestly love you like they say, then they will abide by your wishes. Then- I mean this adamently- every time they begin talking smack, shut down the conversation immediately. Do it immediately after it happens and be relentless. Each time it happens. Don't yell, just be very firm and ALWAYS stand your guard. Eventually, your parents will see where you are coming from
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If that's the case your birth mother should butt out. Your adopted parents ARE your parents. Tell your birth mother you will contact her when you're ready and until then to leave you and your family alone.
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^^^^ I disagree. His/her mother loves the child too. It seems though that both parents are not loving the child wisely.
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Go hug a bum.
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Don't EVER adopt your new wife's kid(s). She will eventually file for divorce and you will be stuck paying child support for the little bastard(s) (until he/she/they eventually graduate high school) who aren't even related to you at all. Never mind their deadbeat dads who don't pay a f***ing dime.
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tell them you belong to no one and they better realize that and reach a compromise.
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^^ two up. I agree to a point. Although I was in that situation, I filed for divorce. She turned the kids against me. Fortunately, they were grown when I divorced her.
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Were they little bastard(s) when you signed the papers you jack @$$. They were good enough to call your own when you were "in love and happy" now that your miserable and angry with their mom, you take it out on them... NICE ONE DADDY. Wallo in your own self pity now.
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^^^^ LMAO ^^^^ GOOD ONE! LMAO
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