I never understand why its so hard for women to just lay there and feel good for a few min. Really its all i ask out of a relationship. Maybe he should go somewhere else to get it?
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^ lol.. I'm a woman and i AGREE! OP be glad he's still finding you attractive after 22 years.. most dont make it that long these days..
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Lucky b****! Quit your whining.
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^hey mr. pinky dick, sex can feel bad for a woman if she isn't ready...and that usually takes more than "a few" minutes, not like you would know since you just "stick it in there" and expect her just to lay there! op, as woman age their estrogen levels rise and progesterone levels fall (eventually causing menopause) which can have a MAJOR affect on your sex drive. natural hormone replacement can do wonders!!!
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I agree, why is it SUCH a big deal for a woman to give up sex. They get all stupid about it and when their husband goes out looking elsewhere because his wife is "never in the mood" for him what the hell does she expect? What if he just decided not to feed her or pay the bills because he "wasn't in the mood"? Then he would be a bad husband but a wife that won't meet her husbands needs is just independent? Next time this wife wants to go out to eat or go to the mall, he should say, well after 22 yrs of that, I am just not in the mood. No more credit cards, money, or bullshit for you!
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^so she should just be glad he's not f***ing someone else? hello people she doesn't feel good! something is WRONG! is it nice he wants to bone her...sure unless he is is rough in bed and it's hurting her. but i'm sure painful sex is still good sex for one of them right?!
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^^^i think it's really unfair that you compare a man's "need" for sex to woman wanting to go shopping...they are completely different things. you make it seem like it's the man's job to pay for everything while she sits home and eats bon bons and waits for him to come home so she can spread her legs....guess what? not the reality!!! and the op didn't say she didnt want to have sex with him, it was that his sex drive is too much for her. if i had to spend 22 years getting laid 5 times a day i would be over it too!
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^I hate you and I dont even know you.
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^well isn't that nice?!?
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put a finger in his ass w/ the bj - bet he cums then...
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I am the OP and making love was enjoyable to both of us till my heart attack . By Sacrifice I mean I could be like a lot of women and say no but no matter how I was feeling I said yes. Because I do believe he deserves a loving wife. BTW I am still waiting by the door when he comes home with open arms and lots of love. And I do not believe in nagging him either . I am still trying my best to meet his needs and I love him more everyday .
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please redefine genders.
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jiggle his teeny man bits and see what happens
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And by the way I love giving him BJs I do it every chance I get . (OP)
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^ actually, you are the ugly one. Not just that "ugly is skin deep" but I think your comment shows that you have developed a case of 'Bone Deep UGLY" Damn shame. There is enough ugly in the world, maybe your spouse (if you ever get one) should refuse to breed you, to save us all from the BDU that you have going.
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you're f***ed.
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I am the OP I make love to my husband every time he wants it and always have . I had a heart attack in January . I do not mean to not enjoy making love as much as we used to . I have always felt that making love is a small sacrifice to pay for all he does for me and our children . It has nothing to do with my not caring about his needs . I DO CARE HEART, BODY
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you may never see this comment but really, men are kinda easy sexually. daily hand and/or blow jobs are appreciated; doesn't have to be "intercourse".(i'm a woman, btw)
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to all the a** ****s who claimed that the op was just being a cunt for not giving it up, all i can say is HAHA TOLD YA SO!!!!!! i was right, she is having a physical problem, not just being a b**** to her husband....all the guys who posted on here should think twice the next time they assume a woman lack of sex drive means they are not taking care of their man!
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newsflash. if you see making love as a "sacrifice" then it has GOT to suck for him. Sorry but mercy sex just doesn't hold a candle to enthusiastic participation. and there's always SOMETHING you can do. If you want to. I so wouldn't blame him for seeking someone who doesn't see sex, one of the most wonderful gifts possible, as a chore.
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^not all guys come from blow jobs...my hubby has twice in his life, once when he was in his early 20's, and once when i attacked him at his parents house and we had to be real quite....other than that it just gives him blue balls!
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The OP never said anything about being in pain.
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^EXACTLY.. GEEZ.. SHE SAID ".But your desire for sex so often is wearing me out." FUCKIN WOMEN'S LIB.. AND I'M A WOMAN!!
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Seriously...I am a woman and I think have sex with guy as much as he wants to. It's about compromise.he listens to your nagging..your annoying stories about work or weeding the garden. Give the guy some pleasure in life.
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^ you must be ugly
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I have been married for 22 years. And I also don't understand when my wife won't just help me when I want to have sex. I have never turned her down when she wanted to, not once. I consider that only respect for her. Why do woman not feel this way too.
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just give him a BJ
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just give him a BJ
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Wow I am amazed at the people who say this woman needs to just up and put out(basicaly) and be happy he isn't f***ing someone else and he still wants to f*** her?!?! really? Apparently these people nevere been in Long relationship...so I am guessing....am Iright though :D Since you OP have been in this relationship 22yrs I am sure you have open lines of communication which would enable you to tell him that.
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I have been with my husband 10 yrs now and sometimes he isn't in the "mood" when I am....should I look somewhere else??!
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i wrote a post about how it hurt to have sex with my husband because i was pregnant and everyone said it was okay for me not to have sex with him, yet this woman is having issues and most of the people tell her to shut up and put out.....crazy!!!
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bj. nuff said
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