Please don't do it for someone else. I made the same mistake 15 years ago and still regret it. If he yelled at you, believe me he isn't worth staying with. Have the baby and everything always has a way of working out. Go with your heart.
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if you want the baby, go ahead and keep it. dont let him tell you what to do. even if he is a jerk, beautiful things come out of shit... look at all the pretty flowers that grow when you fertilizer them.... and all it is is different poops.
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Choose what is right for YOU, not for him. Think hard about this but make sure you are making the choice based on what YOU feel is right. Don't let anyone make this choice for you, it's probably the biggest choice you'll have to make.
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break up with the vagina boy and keep your baby...you will regret it deeeeeeeeeeeply.
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throw him away, not the baby. you will regret it, trust me. get him for child support after all he was there, he helped make the kid he can help pay for it
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What a silly choice. You are allowing him to choose for you. My bf demanded an abortion my daughter is now 2yr. Never knew love before her.
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In the end it ends up being you and your bundle of joy anyways bc most men leave... leave the POS bc he doesnt deserve you or the baby... :@
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this is his loss, doesnt have to be yours.
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I agree with everyone above. Do what your heart tells you is best. It is your body and you need to make that choice. The best choice I ever made was to keep my baby.
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Have the child and keep it love it with all of your heart. I gaurantee you will regret it if you dont and he will too. you will never forget about your child as long as you live.
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Anyone ever hear of any illegal wetbacks getting abortions? No... me neither.
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what an uncooth no tallented low rent pos sob he is piss on that sorry bastard better yet have the kid and let him/her piss on him
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You can't always just have another baby. I had an abortion for my dirtbag boyfriend, and my uterus got ruptured during the procedure. Guess what? Now I can NEVER have children. Do what's best for YOU. If you can't raise the baby, you can always consider adoption.
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My boyfriend got me pregnant on purpose without my knowledge. I could have gotten the morning after pill but he didn't tell me. I had an abortion. I still regret it. Every pro life commercial, bumper sticker, I feel like a murderer who got away with it.
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^well that is because you are a dumbFuCk.....you made a choice that was right at the time. dont regret it, move on.
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What's for supper bi tch?
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^good for you for being honest!
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im 18 and i hav 1 child already and another 1 on the way... the baby's daddy is a real *** n he didnt want kids either but i took him 2 the doctors wit me n he heard the heart beat n he completly fell in love... n u dont have 2 get an abortion, u could do an open adoption if u feel the baby will not hav a good life... bc if u do an open adoption u may still b able 2 see the child n the child doesnt have 2 know ur the mom. i have a friend that went thru this same problem n she decided 2 go with an open adoption n shes very happy that she chose not 2 abort him
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If that jerk ass idiot didn't want kids then he should have kept his dick in his pants! What a jerk! It takes TWO people to make a life so don't let that fool guilt you into killing the baby. Give it up for adoption if you can't handle it but I learned my lesson the hard way. DO NOT have that abortion or it will haunt you the rest of your life.
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fyi people adoption is NOT all its cracked up to be. "open adoptions" are not legally binding and once you sign away your rights to the child the adoptive parents can do anything they want. why bring more unwanted babies onto this planet? there are plenty of kids in foster care that need to be adopted but the BABIES are the only kids adoptive parents want...think about it!!! I hate when everyone assumes that abortion is the worst possible choice.....try being in foster care for your whole life like i was. not fun!
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if YOU want the baby YOU keep the baby. you don't need a man to have a baby. i know it's ideal to have two parents to raise a child, but sometimes it just doesn't happen that way. don't abort your baby just because that man can't grow up and raise a child, you're the one that will deal with your decision for the rest of your life. think about it long and hard.
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4^For Christsake, girls, practice a little self control and you won't need to worry about aborting anything!!...Don't assume your jerkoff boyfriend is going to pull out before he ejaculates!....USE PROTECTION!!!
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I ask you to please not abort this child. Please allow it a life with someone who wishes to share their life with a child, but is unable to have one. Two wrongs do not make a right, and if you end up regretting your decision it could cost you a life of pain and mental torture. Please reconsider. Hoping you make the right decision. This child did not ask to be conceived, and doesn't want to be murdered. Looking at your other two children, how could you even consider abortion?
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leave her alone for christs sake she is an adult and is making the BEST decision she can for HERSELF and her FAMILY! i just love how everyone assumes that she will "regret" anything. guess what? sometimes woman who get abortions dont regret them, in fact they know it was a responsible choice that they made. i just hope you dont live in Oklahoma because now they FORCE the mother to watch an ultrasound before they will give her the procedure. sick f***s!
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Ok, look. Obviously, he is a douche bag. Do you really think he will ever get better? I got a gal pregnant when I was 18. She was a b**** and just dated her cause of sex. She ended up having an abortion and we split. I am now 12 years older and married to a great woman, and have a son now. I still wonder what the other baby may have been like, but I am SO much more greatful having my son and wife I have now. Greener pastures are on the other side. Be storng and f*** the critics.
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2^ That sounds like my situation 20 years ago. The son I have now would've had an older brother MAYBE. Then again, I may never have met my future wife, and had the wonderful son that we have NOW, if I would've stayed with the girl I impregnated then, who I basically forced to get an abortion. I try not to think about it; but, how can you ever forget?
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1^ now...
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The very same thing happened to me 7 years ago this Nov. He yelled at me also. But I chose not to have the baby because it's life would have been hell. Yes, it's painful! And you will cry for the rest of your life. BUT it is your choice. My or their experiences can't tell you what to do. I know that my a** **** boyfriend and I were not ready to be co-parents of an innocent being. And thank god. I regret that I had to make a painful choice in my life but I do not regret not putting an innocent child through hell on earth. Whatever choice you make sweetie, start forgiving yourself now.
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How old are you?
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and the money vaginal rejuvenation costs....being a mom is GREAT.
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being a mom is great but i already have 2 kids with my ex-husband. thank you for all the supportive comments. having an abortion was my choice before i even told him. he was promptly shown the door. i've already forgotten why i ever liked him. thanks again for the kindness.
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Look I'm a guy and a dad, I wasn't ready either but now I have 2 boys one 14 and one to be 12 soon. and I'd give my life for them in the blink of an eye. So don't give you your baby not for this guy or for anyone. You will regret it for the rest of your life.
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I went through the same thing as you and got an abortion. I deeply regret it to this day because I made my baby pay with his/her life for mine and my ex's mistake. It's something I will always feel sad and guilty for the rest of my life :( If I were to do it all over again, I would have dumped my bf ASAP, had the baby, and put it up for adoption. Your baby deserves to live and be raised in a loving home.
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If you don't want the baby put it up for adoption, don't murder it! It will haunt you FOREVER!
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Forget all the right vs wrong rhetoric.....look at this from a financial perspective. Go through with the pregnancy and put the child up for adoption. All your medical costs will be taken care of and you can make between $10K and $20K for yourself. Everybody wins...the child gets a chance at life, you've made a childless couple very happy, and you've got some cash in the bank.
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think of the finger nails...
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adoption is a beautiful option....i cant have children and would love to adopt your baby, please think of the wonderful life your baby could have with someone who would love to have a child but cant on their own.
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Adoption. Please.
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That happened to me and I had an abortion, After I did it, I stayed with the same guy, I told him I would never do that again and he agreed with me that even for him it was a horrible experience there really is no good that comes out of it. I am pro choice for sure what you decide is your own choice and lesson are alwsy(hopefully) learned from the choices we make. But I now have two kids and am pregnant with my third. I would do ANYTHING to not have my daughter have an abortion thats how much i amagainst it, but again I understand the decision.
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I like it when people say "it takes two people to make a baby" but only the woman gets a say if they keep it or not? Also like the "have the baby and crush the guy on child support" BS. My friend pays a ton of child support and his ex won't even let him see his son most of the time. BS, BS, BS. He is a great father also. Not a deadbeat.
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HAVE YOUR BABY...THEN...GET CHILD SUPPORT FROM HIS SORRY BUNS. Your child will be the light of your life!
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^yeah and while your at it spend thousands on laywers for custody battles for the next 18 years....seriously why would someone want to have a baby with a jerk? i would hate having to be tied to a man FOREVER just because he was my baby's daddy :(
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f*** him hes a little boy with that noise lol
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What if your child would grow up and find a cure? What if your child would grow up to help mankind? What if your child would be the sort of leader we need? So mant " what ifs". Who are you to deny life? Adoption is the path I chose. She is one of the most beautiful things I have participated in creating. Yours will be too.
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Doesn't it take TWO people to make a baby??! It's just as much his responsibility that your pregnant as it is yours. If he can't handle it, show him the door! Lots of single moms out there doing fine - just think about WHY you're getting this abortion before you do it, and if he's your only reason, then HE's what needs to go.
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your baby has fingernails!!!
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okay people.....maybe she doesnt want to have the baby. maybe she wants to wait to have kids with someone she loves and is married too. maybe she isnt ready to be a mother. why guilt her into keeping the pregnancy if that is not what she wants? just because her boyfriend is a loser, that doesnt mean she isnt smart enough to make her own choice!!! also no one can "force" someone to get an abortion so it is her decision, and her decision ONLY!!!!
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Don't do it. Either way he'll won't stay with you. I did it and regret doing it. I would've loved to raise my child alone. SCREW HIM!
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You can have another baby. It's most important to have the baby with the right man, or you will all suffer an eternity on earth.
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I have to agree that the boy friend has to go. He's a dirtbag.Regarding the baby, you need to take an inventory of your life and your goals. How old are you? Are you in college/do you want to go to college? Can you handle raising this child on your own? Have you considered an adoption? You have a lot of tough choices ahead, but one this is clear: get rid of the boyfriend.
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You need to loose the boyfriend. Any guy who would treat you like that after getting you pregnant is a definite loser and will only get worse as time goes on.
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I went through a similar experience 7 years ago, the choice is yours. I did it, I regret it, and now there's a good chance I can't have children. Think it through.
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