Sorry sweetie..
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pick up the phone and call him, he missis you
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This post breaks my heart as a father and a son. :(
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Are the stepkids or THEIRS?
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Good Luck. My Dad still see's me as an outsider..I am 28 now He has 4 other "kids" he was always more concerned about. He said he knew I was alright because my mother took care of me....little did he know she was also preocuppied with her three new kids. Now I have 3 kids and I am to preoccupied to talk to them.
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sounds like my dad. never even a birthday card. i have 2 sons now and they are my world.
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This makes my heart sad. As mentioned above, try making the first call. Perhaps arrange for an outing. I wish you luck, and happiness.
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get over it
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People saying "get over it" and dumb shit like that obviously have no idea how much something like this can hurt.
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even if it doesn't work out, you'll prove yourself better when you become a parent.
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I have five children. two froma former marriage. My second child was born during the divorse. She got shafted emotionally by the negative of her parents. Today she is 26 years old. But she still hurts because of the separation from me at her young age. I was not blameless in this. I think about this almost daily and try to make it up to her. But I know I can't.
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Sometimes dads are pushed out of his childrens' lives, he needs love too, something he misses with you. He still loves your too! I would. Reach out now, don't wait until you are old, he needs to know you need him. Do it now.
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I agree. MAKE THE FIRST MOVE DAMMIT! OR SUCK IT UP
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~~~Dear OP,he has new love in his life now. Try to understand.Be the adult child not the baby.
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I say Good Luck too.. My dad did the same thing, as the child I didn't feel like it was my responsibility to call him, he was the adult dammit!!.. He finally apologized, on his death bed. I never forgave him 100%.
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^my Dad apologized too and I haven't forgave him completly, he still proves himself a selfish ass whenever I talk to him.
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