Go to family counseling. Unless you deal with what ended your marriage, it is bound to repeat in any new relationship. That said, with the knowledge you gain, you could start fresh with your new love and commit to not make the same mistakes again.
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I was in this exact situation once, we should talk. conquest6669@yahoo.com
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I was in the same boat too. I left the wife. I got no regrets!
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three months= love I don't think so. try being on your own for awhile. Show yourself you don't need to be with someone. With kids in the picture, you need to spend more then 3 months with someone before making them apart of your child's life. How would you react if your child at the age of 21 came to you and told you after 3 months, they are in love with someone and plan to marry? Put your kids first. 3 months???? Get real!
Learn the difference between 'love' and 'lust' Hell, it's always good after 3 months. Don't pull your ex back into a relationship built on lies. Would you want your ex to tell you he/she wants to try and work things out, while the ex had the same feelings you claim to have for someone else? How selfish is that? like I said, you need to be on your own, grow up and stop bring others into your life that you are going to hurt. It doesn't need to be one or the other. that makes it sound like you are just looking for someone to support you and you don't want to be alone. If you do decide to hook up with someone you have only known 3 months, then give the kids to your ex. they do not deserve to be the victims of your playing house with a stranger. You don't know this person after 3 months. This person could violate you kids for a long time before you ever found out. Once you are a parent...it is no longer 'the all about me' show.
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Knowing the future would make life awfully boring. Tried to make the wisest choice. Think the situation through and commit to path. -esc
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