Wow. That is so sad. Wish you the best in finding comfort.
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It is ok to still care about her. You don't have to replace her - just find another that will share your life. My husband died and I thought I would never love again. After two years, I still cry and miss him. I met another man that I love. He understands that someone else has a part of my heart. Everyone needs to feel loved. Good luck.
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send your money this way. i'll help it mean something.
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I would be more than happy to make YOU happy!
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im curious to know , why did she leave??i understand if you dont answer..
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She said she had to go make her life work, and that she had to learn how to be herself before she could be in love. She told me it wasn't my fault, and that I was a wonderful man, and that I deserved better than she could offer to me. She told me to find another woman who could truly fulfill me. Now, she's living with another man and I hear she's pregnant.
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Ok, she explained herself and that took a lot. By doing that it meant she really cared about you enough to do what was best for you. When you love someone you do whats best for them even if it kills ya. So if you love yourself take her advice and start to get a life. Takes an effort but it's worth it. My heart was ripped out at 19 yo and at 50 I just found a love that I don't have to work at, is natural and flowing and at half my age I was glad I didn't turn it down due to prejudicial views on who I should be dating/loving. Much love and peace to ya. Share yourself TODAY !
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She lied through her teeth. It wasn't about finding herself or making her life work....She wanted out because you weren't making her happy....It could have been something as simple as she didn't like the way you comb your hair, that doesn't mean that you did anything wrong it just wasn't working for her...she wanted out and she did care enough to want to not hurt you, so she took the blame. You need to figure out what you can do to make yourself more attractive....You do have to love yourself before anyone else can love you. Let her be and let her be happy. You will find the right one when the time is right. The people in our past didn't make it to the present for a reason !!
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I know exactly, how you feel. All she wanted me to do was come home and spend time with her. Im so sorry
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Send me your money then. I can't seem get any woman interested because I just don't make a lot. Being well hung would help too, im sure.
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i would gladly trade places with you. im a homeless single mother.
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Give thanks for life itself,donate some money,help the people who need your help.
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One of these days, the woman you are looking for will come around and you will be happy.. again.
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Get some counseling and find away to be happy again. As wonderful as she might have been, it's not worth killing yourself inside over it.
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Try forcing it. I had a similar situation. After my fiancé and I broke it off I was devastated. The thought of intimacy or physical contact with someone besides her was nauseating. I became more and more withdrawn. I tried dating several times and was so turned off by the thought of it that I became a recluse. One day I got tired of it went out on a date and kissed a girl goodnight. The physical act was so insignificant but to mentally pass that block of physical contact was incredible. We never dated again but I am now happily married! Good Luck, time heals all. It has to or we're screwed.
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gosh, I have always wondered what unrequited love was like. Really there are people out there that love that much? I never knew. (and I am not a troll)
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i didnt tell my wife i was neerly a millionaire because she had started hanging around with her single hot girl friends and emulating their looks and ways. she was staying out till 4 am with no call and i started fantasizing about her getting filled with someone elses hot cock. i gave her a year to straighten out but she failed and i divorced her. now im rich and alone and spending a lot of time with girls half my age because there is no "b****" in them yet. its ok but before she changed and killed the woman i married she was my world and reason for all i did. im not planing anything but i feel like i have nothing to live for in the productive sense. oh well laterz.
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Your story has really touched me. I, too am living a lonely life but I am still married and thinking about leaving my husband. So sorry to hear about how you are feeling. You probably will never forget her and she will always have a place in your heart. Real love doesn't go away. You will know when you can "move on", (when you meet that someone who shines from the rest). Do you live in the same town as her and have to see her often? Hang in there I believe God already has someone picked out just for you and when it's time, you will meet her.
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My ex cheated on my our whole marriage and I never knew, then she got on all my so-called buddies. Divorced about a year ago and I can't forget her still. She is the only one I can love...
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...cont...and yeah... my 6 figure income means shit when I have noone to support and make happy... Kinda lonely coming home to a huge empty house every night.
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I'll buy the guns, you buy the plane ticket... let's end this shit!
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stop being such a pussy
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I am so sorry for your pain. A brilliant friend of mine, who also happened to be a shrink, once told me that not every relationship is meant to last forever. You have to accept this and move on. Don't sit home and suffer. Get out and do things that interest you, that bring you pleasure. In doing this, you're far more likely to meet people who share your interests. Also, speak with someone, even a shrink, so you can release your pain and get everything out so you can let go and move forward. Best of luck to you.
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I felt like that in my thirties over some hot little chick. And like you I had other women wanting me. Now in my forties I look back, and wackoff at all the fine a** I let get away, during sobbing over that worthless b***. Don't waste another day son! Get out there and get with it.......BTW, I ran into that little hottie in Wal-Mart, when I saw what a mess she became, I ducked and ran down the isle!
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i'm sure all he wants to hear is 'there are plenty of fish in the sea'
seriously, stop saying that
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It will be difficult for you to accept this, but it is true nevertheless.
If she said that you deserved better than she could offer you, she was telling the truth.
I speak from experience.
I hope you will find your peace and happiness. May God bless you.
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Wow. I'm in the same boat. My wife left four years ago. At first I blamed her. Then I blamed myself. I now realize that we share the blame for not communicating and not being open to growth and change. A counselor told me that it usually takes five years to heal from a divorce. I met a gal in a similar situation, and it was calamity. We were two broken individuals, too consumed with issues of betrayal, still healing. So each of us was inadequate for the other. Give yourself time. Pray for guidance. Seek help from healthy sources: Counselors, Pastors, recommended books and websites. I'm working on myself right now, knowing that I need to become much more than I was, so that I can be all that I need to be for a partner who is at the same level of maturity, ability, understanding, and commitment. I need my chances for a successful relationship to be me so much greater. I don't want to live with this much pain and regret again.
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find a good therapist, direct anger & fault at your mom & put the extra $ to good use...
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As a side note, only my closest friends and family know that she left. I just can't bear to tell people.
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I am so sorry that this happened to you but maybe she wasn't meant to be your life partner.. I hope that you feel better soon.. Do you have someone to talk to about your feelings?
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I feel your pain. My girlfriend who I lived with for many years left me about a year ago and I just can't date anyone else. It's a terrible situation, talking seems to help me.
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Im so sorry, I hope you feel better. And it definitely wasnt your fault. Sometimes stuff just happens and people like her dont make the best decisions.
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I feel for your grief but time will heal the pain. Remember, she is NOT the only fish in the sea... the best thing for you to help forget about her is to find another fish! So don't sit around and commiserate...get out and do things to meet other gals! One day you will find a gal who you deserve and she too will deserve you. I know, I've been in your position before. Good luck
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I am very sorry that she pulled the rug out from underneath you. However, Go out and LIVE MAN!!!! There are many vibrant woman out there who are lonely and looking. I am one of them. Before you know it...you'll be sitting in your rocking chair wishing you LIVED it up...
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u could give ur money to me... honestly u can i'll take it..
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Remember that, 'your money means nothing'. find a girl who feels the same way, because they will take advantage of a broken hearted rich man in a second. trust me... i would.
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I cry everyday since he's been gone...I know your pain.
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