Imagine a childhood that is horrific. Maybe then you might understand something.
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Kids are a drain all of us. Only the relatives have a vested interest and if they close enough at the reasons why they will see its sheer folly and ego.I cant think of one thing a child has ever done for MY LIFE.
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Humans are the best birth control yet.
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me too!
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I loved that, that was great!! Thanks!!
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SO TRUE,YOUR A GENIUS.
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This post reminds me of how much I miss my babies
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oboy.......the in-patients have access to a computer.....whats next ?????
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best post I have ever seen on here.
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^^^ CONTROL your children? You obviously don't have children. Only people without children have opinions such as your own. Do you have ANY control over another persons life?? Like as an adult?? Or another childs life for that matter? No you don't. You cannot CONTROl children the same as you cannot control adults. Kids have rules sure and they break them, but while they are breaking them they are I guess by your terms uncontrolled. You were the perfect controlled child though right?
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^Yes I have children and yes I was a well behaved child. If I wasn't, I got my a$$ beat. And yes, you can and should control your friggin rugrats. Saying you have no control over your kids is the biggest cop-out I've ever heard. Man up and be a parent for God's sake.
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The "control" attitude is held by people who WERE controlled. Violence begets violence. If you beat your children, they will beat theirs, etc. Spanking is never, ever acceptable - it is child abuse, period.
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a little swat on the butt never hurt anyone
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I tried the whole spanking thing with my first kids and it didnt work he got worse behaved and now he talks back even more. i find that time out works best for him. well on the other hand my daughter, his little sister, responds better to a little swat on the butt when she isnt behaving. but another thing everyone has there own deffinition on what a behaving child is. my kids may be misbehaving to you when i think there very well behaved. it all depends on what is best for them. and the only people that spoil my children is there granparents because that is there right lol.
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Even the most miraculous gofts are to no avail if the recipients do not appreciate them!
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That's why children have no upbringing. No discipline.
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Thats sad you don't care about anyone elses child. I don't understand how you can choose to not care about someone elses kid. So if you saw two kids doing something hazardous you'd just walk by cause you don't care thats My JOB? So when did it become a JOB to care? Would it be too difficult to direct these kids to dosomething else. If after you have said something and they don't do it then Oh well, but to not say something at al says something about your character. One who lacks caring. You are mixed up and need to stop using the word SHOULD.
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Children have horrific childhoods because of Adults who Don't care about them. More Adults need to care. Think about this traumatic childhood and if one person cared and showed them love how that would have affected them? Thats one person could just be you. When you see children being neglected...doing something bad, they just need a little guidence someone to show them that someone cares about their wellbeing. If you only leave it up to the parent who obviously is lacking then you have chosen to contribute negativly also to this childs life. I really hope someone sees my point. I am not asking you to raise someone elses child but just care enough to want to help someone else besides yourself.
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It's the parents job to raise their kids and nobody else's. Suck it up and realize that. Control your friggin rugrats and stop expecting everyone else to do it. If I wanted kids, I'd have them but I don't.
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^Thank you, Jesus!
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^ you still contribute to the rugrats negative attitude with you own. See the connection. Also for 2 up...Children aren't born to Make your life easier. I can see easily what a child has done for your life btw...you were once a child and this child has shaped you into the "adult" that you are learn from that childs experiences so that you don't do what bugged you as a child to other children..does that make sense.
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My kid's going to be President one day. Of what, I don't know. But, that's the joy in having a child of your own.
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I don't see this because of kids like the one in Wal-Mart today-didn't matter where I was in the store, I could hear him crying and yelling that "I don't want that." What would I do without birth control?!?! People who want, and are good with kids, should totally have them. Just don't expect that from everyone in the world-there are plenty of people who have kids that shouldn't have. At least I know I'm not a kid person.
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^there is that word...SHOULD. How do you know what they Should and shouldn't have? There is a reason for everything. And just because your not a kid person doesn't mean hating kids is cool. If your not a kid person your not a human person. And by this I mean if you Hate children then you must Hate a lot of adults too. Kids only know what thye are taught. Not only what Parents teach but what communty teaches and society. yeah you don't want to be blamed for my child acting a certain way but in some small way you have contributed. So what do you want to contribute to a childs life? Good or Bad? Every child you come across you have an opprotunity to shape this child into a beter person or worse. You have the choice.
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I LOVE THIS. Thank you for sharing with us. It's all too soon they grow up and leave home. Thankfully, they bless you with grand babies. Again, thanks.
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There is nothing wrong with not wanting kids or not wanting to be around them. Not everybody is a kid person. Kids are dirty, stinky, they pick their nose and put everything in their mouth. They are loud and demanding. This is not for everyone. To each their own.
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I did not say I HATE children. Who can HATE a child?!? I said I'm not a kid person-I know I don't have the patience and I don't want to give up that much of my life. I KNOW this... Why do you judge me for that? I should be commended for knowing that and for not having children. And BTW, I don't care about your child. That's your job.
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Amen brother
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Because not everyone thinks exactly like you. I know that will come as a shock to you, but it's true.
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They probably dread all of them because they aren't ready to learn the lessons. You have to embrace these blessings to "get it" and most people are way too immature to do that.
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Everything is what you make of it. As a man i was scared to be tied down.But after seeing my daughter for the first time, My whole life changed. She is the reason I am alive. I also believe that children can save a marriage too, but that is just my opinion.
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As a man who wanted nothing more than to be a father but is physically unable to, do not take these blessings for granted. Anyone who feels their children are a burden to them can leave them at my doorstep. I will raise them myself with love and respect for who they are.
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I hope people can change their views to see the beauty in things. I Know personally how difficult this is as I struggle with this daily. Still you make a choice what YOU do.
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