Sure I don't have any friends really. Anyone I have ever talked to online I never told the truth. I sleep alot and stay at home most the time and rarely even answer my phone. It's very unfair to my son who is 7 but I just can't bring myself to even leave the house to seek medical attention about it.
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Thank you i would appreciate that
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don't do that! there is so much life to live! size doesn't matter! love yourself!
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I am sorry that you have chosen to give up:( There are programs and people out there that would help you. I know we live in a terribly cruel world, and people say the most vicious things to one another, but there are some good people out there. I hope you change your mind, and allow yourself to live a full happy life. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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A journey of a thousand miles starts with one step. I was in the same boat a year ago. I have since found people to help me work out my body and work on my brain. Please Please Please find a support group and keep looking until you find someone who makes working out fun.
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Don't do that, get out there. Be yourself! Don't worry about others just make yourself happy. I know how depressing it can be, I weighed over 300 pounds at one point, but when I started doing what made me happy I became less depressed and started losing weight. Be a survivor, not a victim. Good luck to you.
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Please don't shut yourself away from the world just because you weigh more then you would like. I too weigh more then I want to and wound up with heart problems. I realized something life is too short . Get out and meet new people and find those things that make you happy . And you will see the happier you become the more you will find your self esteem. I am sure you are Beautiful inside and out . Hang in there Sweetie.
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Failure exists,only if we STOP trying!!
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Why don't you do something about it? Diet? Exercise? Something!
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Hey some down to earth advice. I started watching kids in my home and have started losing weight. I had to install baby gates. Hell crossing over those damn things 20 times a day has toned my thighs not to mention I am busy from 7 to 5 every day. The kicker is I'm also making money and my house is spotless.You're home anyway try it.
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They are right you know. It's all mental, it's all the result of other people and their judgements, not the weight. It's not your fault. I wish I could give you a hug. I was 260lb in high school, the physical weight is gone, but I am still weighed down. I never found my faith in humanity again.
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The world will never conform to you, you have to get out in it, stop eating in excess and move your body...all day...you will experience things doing this that will improve your mental state and the weight will fall off you.
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If your 7 year old son isn't enough motivation to get up and get out, then You have some Serious Problems!!..Dont do this to your Kid!!!!!
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U can get wii speak
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You shouldn't stay home and go for the record unless you are 500 lbs
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To the "OP":If you need someone to talk to, with no judgments, but friendly and supportive communication repost here I'll give you my email.
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Is it genetic? My Dad was overweight... probably led to his death from a heart attack. Don't you want to be around for your son? I miss my Dad; but, I never once told him to lay off the food. In some ways, I feel like it was partially my fault. Always will.
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ok here ya go im kankakeeguy36@yahoo.comI was the one who said: To the "OP":If you need someone to talk to, with no judgments, but friendly and supportive communication repost here I'll give you my email.
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^ Can I send you spam? I like to make a quick buck. You are now forever on spam lists... ENJOY!
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what a jerk ^
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Don't give up, life is great if you let it be. It took awhile to get to 300, it will take awhile to lose it also. Go for it, it is better than dying.
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Hi I hope you don't give up. I am a 37 yr old man and I know how you feel. I am not 300 but I am in the 200's. I know how easy food becomes a friend it's always there and never judges us. So, try doing some kind of activity at least 10 minuets a day at first then work your way up to an hour slowly. There are more ways, I hope to see a repost from you.
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Don't check out of life just because you're afraid of what other people might think or say. Screw them. Find some good friends and go have fun and try like hell to ignore the idiots. We all have problems to deal with. Everyone has a crutch of some kind. It's just more apparent on a large person what their crutch in life is. Yummy yummy food.
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I have isolated myself also. I have noone
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do you need someone to talk to? i will give you my email address. checking out of life isn't good. everyone has a cross to bear. please know that there are people who care.
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~~~ op, i'm going to say something completly opposite of what you want to hear. STOPIT! Stop pushing your self-loathing on everyone else. Stopit. Its nice to confide in others but you have been feeling sorry for yourself for years. You want things to be different? It starts with how you think, the thoughts you fill your mind with, not just about yourself but also about life...wanna know why your unhappy? Its the same reason that you and the rest of us find a person inspiring or not. Its your actions and attitude.
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