I say go for it.
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I have recently found myself in this situation! It is amazing! Luckily neither of us are married at this time. We've both been married, had kids, and lived productive lives. I am currently in a relationship that has been stagnant and isnt going ANYWHERE for the last 5 years. I do have 3 adopted children who have become somewhat attached( or just "used to") to my current bf. In any case, I was the one who made the initial contact eith my "first love". I knew I still had feelings for him but wasnt expecting that he would for me. After all......we were a lifetime ago! (23 yrs ago) I was shockingly wrong!!! I am currently ending my dead end relationship, packing up my kiddos, and moving in with him in the State he lives in! This is the BEST feeling anyone could imagine! We are more in love now than we were in highschool! It is my dream come true, and "our" Happily Ever After!!!!
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I understand your dilemma because I'm experiencing sort of the same thing. After over twenty years apart and several relationships between us, my first love and true love have come full circle and are giving ourselves another chance. For those who say "you've made a prior comment" obviously have never experienced TRUE LOVE. It's best to be with someone you really love than to be with someone you'll grow to resent because you don't. GO FOR IT!
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wow I am with you and was completely in the same boat but I have strayed slightly. I am not married but going on 7years with my guy. He works so hard but I am consumed by my old love who through misguidance said no to marrying 25years ago. It would have changed my life too much at the time oh how silly and young I was. Although we have not physically met again we are in contact everyday one way or another. Oceans and continents separate us but we both pray that we will be together again one day. I agree at first I thought it was just reliving our youth but honestly I like him more now both mentally and physically especially with his older look. I also realize that for some it is the misinformation that robbed us of our lives together. The truth can hurt but lies will always catch up and can hurt more. I never had children, never married and never lived with another man. I just couldn't find the right person who I felt secure with. Good luck to everyone on all sides and be honest especially with yourself.
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I saw a man recently whom I fell deeply in love with about thirty years ago. We both have been married to other wonderful people for many, many years. He raised his daughters and I raised my sons. However, when I saw him again I instantly knew, just like I knew long ago, how very much he means to me. Sometimes, I cry when I am alone because I am consumed with the sadness of being without him. But I perceive that we are moral, upright people to the core. The words of love or lust do not leave either one of our lips and I wonder does he also feel the same but I do not dare ask him. I keep my distance and my desires to myself. I have never been unfaithful to my husband and I could never hurt anyone like that..not ever. But I cry when I am alone because this other man was the only one I ever loved effortlessly, completely, and will do so until the day I die.
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Yes, it is sad when someone innocent gets hurt but it also hurts to have loved someone for 30 years and not be able to be with that person. There are always two sides to every story.
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There are seemingly more gays that want to be married than straight people. If we had to fight for our right to marry, I don't know if anyone would show up. Either that or it would be you and your choice of a thousand women.
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i guess that wasnt fair to al the good people out their and i apolagise for that .
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^2 no, she cant even give me a reason, and had no problem letting me know it would continue. it would be differant if i were a drunk, or i beat on her , but she has everything , a nice house , a nice car, jewelry ,and i work hard to see to it ,and as far as i knew, everything was fine, we said i love you every day, people are to self centered any more, their too concerned about what people think of them , their is no respect for each others feelings any more. all they think about is being lusted after by the oposite sex. i wanted to grow old together, i love watching couples in their 70's and 80's holding each other up, holding hands, but i guess it just wasnt meant to be.
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Fuck the kids lives up. Go for it!
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^ i couldnt agree more, but their is no way il ever set myself up for that kind of hurt again, id rather live the rest of my life alone.
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^ I'm sorry. People hurt each other so much! I wish your wife was a decent person, because you sound so nice and deserving of a decent person. She has shown you no respect or consideration, I suggest you show her the same, ie, the door. Good luck and don't forget there are good women out here that need a good man. I think adulterers should be punished by law.
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im going through the same situation, my wife and her lover of about 30 years ago are secretly seing each other again,all of a sudden business trips of a few days at a time , she gets very hateful when she gets ready to go when i ask questions , you must not love your wife very much or you wouldnt even think about conflicting that kind of pain on her if and when she finds out, i know the hurt its causes first hand ,in my case i cant take it any more , and as far as im concerned he can have my wife because il never trust her again after all the lie's and affairs and how casual she is about it, and still , i dont have the heart to boot her out when times are as tough as they are today, couples fall out of love all the time these days, but it would take hate to hurt someone as bad as they hurt me with their selfish acts , so if you live in washington and this is you ,i know she feels the same about you ,and i wish you would come and get her, so i can at least start the healing proccess,
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Wow
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^Were you good at Scramble, er uhm, Scrabble?
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