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I've never had a girlfriend.  I'm 28 and I'm scared that I'll be alone for the rest of my life - but I'm too shy/scared to do anything about it.

I've never had a girlfriend. I'm 28 and I'm scared that I'll be alone for the rest of my life - but I'm too shy/scared to do anything about it.

 
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your gonna have to get over that shit or be alone forever!!
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Geek Patrol is waiting for you.
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Get a dog or a cat to love you and stop obsessing over the girlfriend thing. It will happen when you least expect it.
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Don't be so shy, don't be scared, and don't start with asking the hottest girl either. Pick a girl that is down to earth, and chat her up. See how the conversation goes, and ask her if she wants to go to a movie, for a drink, ect. Just say something specific all she can do is give a reason she can't or won't go. It isn't that hard. Good Luck to you! Keep your head held high, shoulders back! I'm a girl and the one thing about guys I can't stand is that some never put thier shoulders back, have good posture and stand with some pride about themselves. You are probably one. Make an effort to hold yourself well, and you will not only feel better about yourself, you will get a date!
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Time to grow up or accept your fate - alone sucks!
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Awww that's sad! I'm sure there's a lot of girls that are too shy to ask out guys but you have to take a chance sometime! Just become friends with some girl maybe from your work and see where it goes from there. Have a big party with your friends and have them invite other girls. Before you know it you'll be swamped..
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Grow a pair and start asking chicks out or you will really regret it 10 years from now. If they say no you'll probably never see them again anyway so who gives a f***.
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Someone asked me how do you find a girlfriend, I said "don't look"
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When you stop worrying about it, it will happen. Women sense insecurity a mile away. That's why people who get in a new relationship all of the sudden find others more interested in them.
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stop snapping your carrot and get out of the house..... get one of the BBW's that seem to be everywhere !
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You are GAY!!!
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He' right you can change, just get yourself out there, friends, networking, volunteer, etc...it WILL be awkward and it WILL make for some embarrassing moments but you will get over that with experience. You will get more comfortable and relaxed just give it a chance.
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Perhaps it is because you are GAY/
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dont be shy. do you know how many girls are looking for nice guys?
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Just say the words...get them out there...force yourself say SOMETHING...and if you get rejected, do it all over again...you only go around once my friend, don't let timidity stand in your way!
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^^^2 thats a load of BUllShiT and you know it
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Stick your head in an adult book store, it can be relieved.
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Take a job in car sales for a year. You will get so used to rejection it won't bother you one bit. Trust me.
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Make an appointment with your doctor and ask him/her to give you a prescription for Gabapentin. It takes a few days to get used to the medicine but you will be able to kiss your shyness and scared feelings goodbye.
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awe, I want to give you a hug.
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Try guys. Fags are a dime a dozen.
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What if you found out you were one of those truly destined to spend your life without a partner. Would you continue to stress on it, or just go ahead and live your life the way you want? Go with that theory, and if you find someone, great. If not, you haven't wasted your life waiting. Good luck!
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YOU can CHANGE THIS SITUATION.... DO YOU WANT TOO? THEN DO IT!
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