You don't have to like her Mom, but you do have to grin and bear it, and realize that there are times when your gf really doesn't want to deal with her either. You gotta do whats right.
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if you love your gf and plan on spending your life with her you had better focus on the beter points of the mother and have respect in spite of not liking her personality. then again you may study her behavior and see with the eyes of your heart! mom may have some self esteam issues and that might be why she behaves as she does. if thats the case you may start to see her through very different eyes with understanding.
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If you don't like her mom, then you need to work that out with your GF. The problem is, that if your GF can't understand or relate to your feelings about her Mother than you just need to move on. Otherwise, if you guys go LTR then it will constantly be a source of friction between you two.
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we would still be married if it wasn't for my mother-in-law........AND, her daughter not realizing that we started a new family.She couldn't fart without calling "Mother" to find out what key to do it in that day...like B flat or F sharp !! oh well, life goes on
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maybe you arent good enough have you thought of that? maybe you need to look at yourself. do you have a job? a place? a car? mothers tend to want the best for their kids, and if youre a loser playing video games working at blockbuster..... welllll then i got news for ya.
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Her mom is just a total snob and whatever goes on in our life or my life with situations that sometimes don't concern my gf and definitely not her mother she always has to tell. She tells her everything and everything is not her mothers business and her mom has a negative response about everything.
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^ Well guy, it's time to step up to the plate and be a man. You need to make a tough decision. You need to tell your GF your not dating her mother and she needs to have respect for your private life. If your GF can't be discreet with your lives together, then you need to seperate. If your GF can't deal with that like a mature woman with her own life, if she decides to lie to you and go behind your back to squeel to mommy, then you just gotta say your movin' on. There is no other way to deal with it. Take some heartache up front and leave or marry into it and deal with the heartache for the rest of your life.
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^ very well spoken !!!
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Im in the same boat. Her mom just feels entitled to everything and I think some of it rubbed off on my gf. Im keeping her around for now, but I won't ever take this relationship to the next level because of it. I would never have kids with her in the future because I know her mom would just try (and probably be successful) in manipulating her on how she feels the kids should be raised ect. Overall I don't like her mom and I know this is a problem so the way I see it my relationship has an expiry date. Guess I could end it now but theres no immediate problems so I just deal haha
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