not a very constructive way to fix a problem, how about a little something called REHAB???
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is it a pill problem he has? i agree with the above poster, if it was something as harmless as pot then sure just quite but major drug addiction is much worse than that.
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disclose the habit, my friend has been mean to me, i do the harmless stuff
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Google "communication", study up on it, then experiment with it and this person.
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The fact that you are being mean to get back at someone because they are hurting themselves... well that's going to backfire on you. I know you see it.
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sometimes you've already tried all the right and sensible stuff and it just doesn't work, they wont give up the drugs. you love them, dont want to leave them, dont want to give up. since you aren't strong enough to leave the addict, you start trying to drive the addict away from you, or at least try to make them realize on some level how hurtful they are being. maybe in the long run the addict will leave you instead. (been there, done that.) not logical, but these things rarely are.
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^so true....it works, drive it away from you.
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if you loved this person at all you wouldn't be mean but your heart would be filled with love and compassion and you'd either find a way to help or have tough love and let go untill something changed, love is not hurtfull tward the one it loves!!!
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Pot is just as bad as the other 'hard' drugs. My wife is an emotional void. She is either stoned or at work. I get more "I'm happy to see you" time from our dog than her.
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