so you want to give your kid up so you stop paying child support.....wow, you sound like a real winner. do everyone a favor and go cut your nuts off!
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^ I don't think that was said. When you stretch in the morning you are supposed to stretch you limbs, not what you read. Silly silly person.
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Paying for at least 18 years. Amazing what one good f*** can do to your life, isn't it?
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Why do we still have to log on to comment on the post before this? Is the poster so anal that he really does not want comments? So I will comment here. If you never trust women, imagine how we feel about men. Don't you realize men cheat and lie much more often than women? Do you have any idea what it's like to be a woman out there trying to date?
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^^^i did not misunderstand anything. the mother wants to keep the daughter, the father does not, wonder why??? obviously the idea of having to pay for his own child is too much responsibility for him....its all spelled out in the post DUH!
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Make a case and sue for custody youself, make her pay child support.
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sad, that everyone here assumed the courts stepped in and are saying the father cannot see his daughter. i know someone who went thru the systems, his ex still gets the check, and the system oredered visitation...guess who took that one right away?...yup...the mom, so, 2^, yeah women are b****es when it comes to kids...(btw...im female too). i cannot understand why someone would keep their child from the father OR mother if its not a matter of child safety or welfare...
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the mom can't "take" away visitation, it just means the dad has to actually hire a lawyer and FIGHT for it....our legal system is a joke no matter who it pertains to...hello its called a LAWYER! they cost money but its the only way to establish your case legally and to MAKE SURE they other party follows through with whatever the court orders.
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No way!!! A nig doesn't want to pay child support? Color me surprised
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sometimes its best to keep a child from a parent who a pattern that shows how for 40 years he spent his life running from any responsibilty that he came across. thats what he did once he relized that his new baby girl was gonna change his life in away that he couldnt handle- so he left. I did give a crap about the emotional or financial burn he left his x to hanlde. And then expects her to not protect their daughter from feeling abandoned a second time when he disappears from her life when hes bored with his visiting schedule or it interfers [with somrthing else hed rather do. hell yes its okay to keep a parent out of a childs life if its gonna cause trauma to a child in some way!!!!!!!!!
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^^SO YOU MUST BE THE OP! welcome :)
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can someone please explain how he wants to give her up for adoption and he wants to see her? confusing!!!
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^ no shit!
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he wants an open adoption, which means he wants to be able to get to know her and watch her grow up, and he's a least responsible enough to know he cant give her the life she needs. there are all kinds of women out there that get pregnant on purpose for the welfare, to trap the man, for c.s money. they are too stupid to realize that you cant make money off a kid or keep a man because of one either but that sure doesn't keep them from trying! i'm female and when it comes to kids, women are BITCHES! just b/c your a mom doesn't mean you are a decent caring loving person.
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he wants an open adoption, which means he wants to be able to get to know her and watch her grow up, and he's a least responsible enough to know he cant give her the life she needs. there are all kinds of women out there that get pregnant on purpose for the welfare, to trap the man, for c.s money. they are too stupid to realize that you cant make money off a kid or keep a man because of one either but that sure doesn't keep them from trying! i'm female and when it comes to kids, women are BITCHES! just b/c your a mom doesn't mean you are a decent caring loving person.
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^an open adoption is not like foster care sweety! stop watching 16 and pregnant....
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^^ No sounds to me like he said adoption would be the best option for the child. Don't you think there is something wrong with the mother from that? He also says he wants to meet his daughter, so I think that yes you are stretching it. Perhaps your boyfriend knocked you up and ran away without paying child support at all, you seem to be refering to you own situation that's spelled out duh. Geez. Learn to comprehend what you read.
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^i don't know many mothers who just keep their children for a stupid paycheck, they usually love them...wow! what a thought, a mother not wanting to give her child away because she loves her and can't let her go....the op was the one who mentioned feeling used for a child support payment....even though it is his kid and he should pay for it. and how funny is it that if the kid was given away he wouldn't have to pay for her anymore....so who has the real motive here? i think the father is sick of paying for a kid he doesn't get to see. and who determined that? THE COURT SYSTEM aSSHOLE! his decision to have that kid with someone he can't stand is something he will have to live with it....so pay up buddy, eighteen years is a long time and you will sit in jail if you don't!
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^ You're the one who should learn to comprehend you arrogant a$$.
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^really? what not to understand other than he is a dick who doesn't want to take care of his own kid?
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Wow, sounds like this one commentor has issues that have nothing to do with this persons post. I think she is a sad, hurt woman sitting alone with her 3 bastard chillins, in the ghetto. You may love your child, but what I get from the post is that she is an unfit mother. There is nothing that should give you the impression that he is doing this for the money. Fix your life. Stop laying up under hoodlums, and get a job.
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^yup, don't even have kids so guess who also likes to project hmmmmm???
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