Thanks for the advice! Many of you said stuff that seems like you have heard the whole story and not just a little bit of it. No, I'm tied in his basement but every time I get the strength to stop taking his calls, or change my number he sends flowers, calls work, takes time to hangout, and just becomes the guy I know he can be--but only for a short time period. Some times he makes me feel like I am the most important woman in his life...when his mother passed, I'm the one he called to tell and the one he asked to go with him to the service. It is just some days I feel we are great together and other days I feel like a bootie call. I hate not knowing where I stand. I tried to get over him and move on...but no other guy takes his place. When I do need him, he is always there for me. I love him to much to give up trying.
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Leave him and move on with your life. This relationship is toxic before it has even started. I wish you the best. :)
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toxic is not the word..believe me
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I was in the same type of relationship - but mine ended up violently - he attacked me in my own home. I hope you have the strength to move on - before anything worse happens. It has taken me YEARS to get over what happened to me. I haven't even dated in 5 years. It can really suck the life outta you. Be careful
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Stop allowing someone else to control you, get some courage and take back your life. It;s so easy to just sit back and complain and do nothing. Grow up!
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This is just crazy...you need to value yourself more than this! There are so many guys out there willing to treat a woman right, go find one! This guy you are with is just a loser who has no respect for women. I am sure you are not the first one he has treated this way, and believe me, you won't be the last. I have been in a one-sided relationship, and it hurt like hell to leave, but now I just feel like a weight has been lifted. My attention has already been directed elsewhere...to a man that knows how to treat a lady right!
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Just leave....you need to.
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"He won't let me" You mean "I like being treated like crap, so I'm staying." All of life is choices - the kind of life we have depends on the kind of choices we make. Good luck - you sound like a woman who will need it.
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Me too ... He won't let me be.
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I was in the very same situation. Head over heels for this guy who did nothing but make me feel like shit. He finally left and now I'm happier than I've ever been! No more days filled with lying in bed and crying!
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HE wont let you, you mean you wont let you, unless your tied in his basement. wah!!!!
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Get away from him, it will only get worse. I have been there too. They never change. What you see is what you get, don't dream of him changing, dream of the right one waiting for you to be free.
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are you sure he doesnt love you back? not everyone opens up until after years into a relationship...i bet he cares more than you think
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YOU ARE MISTAKING UNATTAINABLE APPROVAL FOR LOVE. THIS ISN'T LOVE. WAKE UP!
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WE ARE THE CAPTAINS OF OUR FATE
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