Pain is all in your mind.
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The Holidays are hard to get through. I just think about how nice it will be to have a few days off and I avoid all family gatherings.
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I know how you feel, I hate them as well. It's as though I get more tense as they approach. All the joyfull decorations the stores have so thoughtfully put out already just stab me in the chest. Thank all those happy families for making us know what we are missing.
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Pain is not all in your mind. Thats a rediculous statement. Perhaps we have some chance against physical pain with distraction, and some even like pain, but emotions cannot be controlled unless you are heartless. Im guessing you are.
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what a douche
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My brother died Thanksgiving, father Easter and my mother just died. The pain doesn't go away. Life is pain. how you deal with the pain changes. Life is beautiful as long as you see it that way. Give thanks for the good in your life. It is there....you need to see it.
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I always seem to want to lose weight right before the holidays :/ this is why I don't want them to come around though yeah I have shitty timing.
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The holidays suck for me.
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Luckily, they start playing X-mas music after Halloween now.
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I have issues with my Father as well. My only Sibling, a Brother, racked up 47K in Credit Card Bills signing my Dad's name and ny Dad found out about the last one when he was arrested for Credit Card Fraud and False Information on a Credit Application. My Brother has told me everything saying it was "Free Money". My Dad has criticized me for mentioning it to others in my family and I am estranged from them as well. I have focused on my freinds and kids and have a great relationship with them. I have done absolutely nothing wrong and will not pretend that I did. I have had stuff on my credit that he did that he admitted to as well.
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If you are experiencing a loss of a loved one, use the day to remember and cherish memories you have, do something or go somewhere that person would have wanted to go, order their favorite dish at a restaurant. They would want you to perservere through this time and get to a point where living is once again good.
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For some of us the holidays are not a time of celebration, they are a time of pain and lonelyness. For me, they are a time of abandonment and painful lonelyness.
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I felt this very same way last year, I wish I could help you.
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Instead of dweling on how much pain YOU have, try making someone (even someone you don't know) happy around the holidays. Give a toy to some random kid. Donate something nice to the Salvation Army or the Vets.. Doing good things makes good things come back your way!
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as someone who has almost killedthemselves...its really not worth it...i dont know you or the type of music you listen to, but...this song helped me. its by Sixx AM...its called life is beautiful (no, its not all happy)
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My family hates me because of my father. I did nothing wrong and they kept blaming me for everything. I've always promise myself that I will have a family of my own and be happy to prove them wrong. For now I will donate my time, and money to the less fortunates that way i don't feel lonely during the holidays. I'm always nice to my co-workers and friends and they always invited me to their home on the holidays.
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