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My husband is a sex addict, can't stop watching porn. He has cheated. I don't know how to help, or who to tell. I can't live like this. For better r worse right

My husband is a sex addict, can't stop watching porn. He has cheated. I don't know how to help, or who to tell. I can't live like this. For better r worse right

 
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He doesn't need help, you need to leave him, HE CHEATED. I am a man, addicted to sex and love porn. However, I would NEVER consider cheating on my wife.
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WRONG!
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^^^^WRONG ABOUT?????????????????
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Get a boob job and lose some weight. Damn, use some common sense.
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why so many downs? because I am loyal to my vows? he needs help. This a new discovery that he is actually addicted...so now that we know...if he does't seek help or show effort in making this change then I will have no toher choice but to leave. Judge me how you want but that is the truth. I married this man and I love him.
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^ Thanks for explaining it to the rest of us who could give a shit less.
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Go Bobbitt on his ass!
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shut up and suck!!
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^ I have to find it first!
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This picture is HOT!
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Don't. It will eat you up everyday. You will get paranoid, it will destroy you.
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^^you are being stupid!
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Retards abound sadly but I admire your loyalty and commitment to your vows and your husband.
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You are going to stay!? You are going to kiss the lips that went down on god knows who, god knows when? You are going to go down on him and you won't know whose hole or what hole it's been in a nd how recently? You don't know if he even has the decency to shower before being with you. He could be with 3 or more women everyday and you would never know. I don't care how much you love him, it isn't worth worrying every moment.
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^ Did you ever kiss your Mom or Dad on the lips as a kid?
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He will ONLY start the road to recovery when he hits rock bottom. I used to be a sexual addict. When I lost everything and ended up with hepatitis B I finally WOKE THE FUCK UP. He will. Just depends on before or after he gets something. You have to decide if you can wait that long or if you get sucked in too by getting HIV or any number of STDs. Your leaving may be what he needs to wake up.
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Jesus H! Really lady? He's the one that broke the "for better or worse". If you can't stand up for yourself, please don't subject US to your lack of ability to be true to YOURSELF! And don't give me that "there's no me in marriage" cause your 'husband' sure as hell thinks there is.
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^please don't subject us to your lack of blah blah blah.....this is my secret..this is where we post them...right? Is this not what the site was for, don't like it...move to the next one...As for the update last night I told him I am leaving...and I am. I feel free already.
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GOOD FOR YOU!
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Does your crotch itch? Ever wonder why?
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Leave him, all men are addicted to sex, btu some lack self control.. and once a cheater, always a cheater.It doesnt matter how hot you are, how good your sex is, or how many times you get him off, he will still be a cheater.. Find a man who will respect you, and then reward him for that respect by making sure he stays satisfied... The man you are with now will never be happy.
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I'm staying again :/
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This is a secret..this is where we post them right?? You don't have to comment....
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We all have our tollerances. If you can't live with his in yours, you need to first request that he seek professional help, then if he doesn't you need to divorice.
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Put out more and you wouldn't have a problem.
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get out now, before he gives you someting there is no cure for
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this from a EX wife of a sex addict, cheater...GET OUT NOW, it will never get better no matter how much you want it too.
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All men are sex addicts... some of us just control it better than others. It's natures way of ensuring the propagation of the species. It's just our perverted society uses that aspect of humanity to sell, sell, sell and, of course, those of us who have no control make things worse by providing pornagraphy in every way they can.
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Talk to your Docto or any doctor, ask for a referral to a therapist. But your husband has to consent first.
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^^ your welcome..thanks for your shitless reply too ;)^ to the above poster, exactly my husband has to do it...
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Give lots of hand jobs.
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Tell everyone here. We are all trained psychiatrists. I would say that you've become fat and unsightly. He needs something visually stimulating, which would apparently leave you out in the cold. I sleep at home beside my hot wife every night though, so I really have no concept of what you are actually dealing with. Just a stab in the dark, if you will.
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you said for better or for worse...so this is worse huh? how bout when he gives you an std like aids which could KILL you? you need to think about your future :( i would stop sleeping with him for sure because this is an illness and he may not stop sleeping around. being in love with an addict sucks....he is no different than a crack head!
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@ up is just an a** **** who likely does not have a hot wife and if he does they are both ego maniacs who only care about themselves which shows they don't really care about one another but just about how hot they are. Good Luck with that.
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