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Been with u for 22 years & married for 18. I have withstood your bullying, belittling, and disrespect longer than most would have. I don't love u & I'm leaving.

Been with u for 22 years & married for 18. I have withstood your bullying, belittling, and disrespect longer than most would have. I don't love u & I'm leaving.

 
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OP here...I just decided that at 38 years old, I can't take it any more. Tired of wasting my life. Finally woke up one day and realized there's more to life than feeling alone and miserable. I took the easier path, and have no one but myself to blame. He's not worth my tears.
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I just love how people assumed it was a female doing the belittling and bullying! Hun, I'm proud of you for having the courage to leave him no matter how long it took. I vowed to never let a man control me when I was seven and saw my mother nearly killed by a controlling man. Now, is the time to take your life back into your own hands and do what makes you happy!
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mom?
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What took you so long!?
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Longer than you should have. Hurry up and go be happy you aren't getting any younger!
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Get out while the gettin is good!
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And take the Bank account with you.
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I don't understand why you stayed for so long. You knew she was a bully and belittling you for years....it's kinda like after 22 yrs what else is there, can it get worse with this person...probabaly not. Good Luck anyway.
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My wife is like that. I wish I had the balls to just leave....we are on 18 years.
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As soon as he turned into a dick you should have dumped him. Something tells me that was 22 years ago.
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you're a slow learner aren't you?
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I wish I had your strength.
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A person who initiates divorce cannot be trusted. Marriage is a commitment for life, in sickness and in health, a promise to stand together through all trials in life. One must be strong when the other is weak.
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The reality of it all is that you truly are a cheating whore. It's no wonder you are treated that way.
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