He's absolutely right, as hard as it sounds, don't shit where you eat. I learned the hard way too, but I was 16 at the time. A few yrs later, the opportunity came around again, and even though I looked like a cowardly douchebag, I didn't go for it, knowing fully what the consequences would be. You'll find someone else, eventually. In the meantime, stick with girls at school or something, but not work.
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you think you feel bad now ? wait till some other dude is f***ing her ass off
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I'm sorry you are hurting. Hang in there and give yourself time to process and heal. Don't listen to these negative CL rejects on this site. Take care of YOU. =)
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Thats right dude, take care of you. BTW, dating at work can be trouble. Don't ever expect to much out of that. Remember, it's as hard for her to see you as it is for you to see her. You need to be one step ahead of the game. She prolly already has some dick, she can break up and move on and feel superior to you. So you need to get some new snatch too, or at least make it seem like you got some babe just dolling over you. Spend $40 and send yourself some flowers at work. Sign the card, "Had a great time, I want more"...that will flame through your office faster than a prarie fire fanned by a fifty mile an hour wind. 10 to 1, your "ex" will be so jealous she will even come over and talk to you. If anybody asks, act surprised yourself...you don't have to explain. It's no one elses business....play it out...but never let it out.
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I agree. Never date co-workers.
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What is that smell? Oh wait...I got it, it's desparation and it never smells attractive.
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alot of establishments have a no dating co-workers policy. think thats a good idea. yea it really sucks to love someone who doesnt love you back and be forced to work with them everyday
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LIke a good friend and mentor once told me "Never shit where you eat." Remember nex time.
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There isn't a man alive to whom this has not happened! There is ALWAYS somebody else, and when you meet her, you will wonder why you even cared about your old relationship! Good luck and G-d bless!
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