Are you marrying outside your own race?
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I did not invite a parent to my marriage for fear of an embarassing screaming match and the weight of so many memories of non-support that this person bestowed upon my life. This person did so much damage, the disappointment of another rejection was avoided by total exclusion. It was a nice day.
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OP here...No, I'm not marrying outside my race. I just believe that he wouldn't show. He's never shown his face at any other important events in my life. How am I to trust that he won't hurt my feelings that day as well by not showing up? He believes he can be a father without being there at all. I want my father to walk me down the aisle but like I said, I know he probably won't make it, while my grandfather or brother would be honored.
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I understnad where you are coming from. My dad didn't show up at my wedding and I asked my Grandmother to walk me down the aisle. It was an honor for her. It still makes me sad but it's not about him. It's about your new life with your new husband. Stay focused on that. Congrats on your new beginning.
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Maybe, maybe not...I guess it's your choice though, not his.
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Why does anyone in the family need to be there for that matter? Why is the wedding never about the 2 people getting married? It always seems to be about showing off and feeding everyone, and at the end the couple has spent a ton of money and barely got to enjoy any of THIER day!
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Go to Gatlinburg, TN. We had a Dolly ice sculpture that shot wine out the nipples... FANTASTIC!
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^ Did you see that on my big redneck wedding? Did you get married in a tree stand?
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^^Classy way to celebrate a sacred and private occasion.
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