Sometimes you just have to wait it out. Don't stalk and try back in a year or so.
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^You are a real jerk!
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You need to fight for what you want. That means going after him with all your heart. If he doesn't respond to that kind of sincerity, he will respond to nothing. That means being rejected, maybe more than once but being so persisitent and loving that he is either convinced or threatens to have you killed. :) Only then, will you be able to walk away if you have to.
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^ Thank you for your kind advice. I don't want him to think I am stalking him or something.Our situation is complicated, he knows how I feel and says he realizes he now loves me, but we can never be together. He won't tell me the reason why, and at this point I think he might have just said that he loves me to hurt me.
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Fighting for someone you love by forcing them to be with you is a sure fire way to never get him. If you want him you will let him go. Do well for yourself then try again in a year. If he is saying he loves you then wont give you a reason why you cant be together he is playing you. Keep thing the first person is a jerk for not telling you what you want to hear.
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The best thing you can do is let him go. I mean REALLY let him go. The silence and void will either bring him to his senses or allow you to heal and find your true love in life. This isn't rejection on his part...just the wrong fit. Your true love won't be able to let you go NO MATTER WHAT. Or..win the lottery and watch him come running ;)
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^ Oh I plan on REALLY letting him go. I just don't understand why he would decide now to tell me he loves me. If it is the wrong "fit" as you say...that makes just no sense. Why not just leave well enough alone? He knows I only wish good for him, so why hurt me like this?
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He is hiding something--- maybe he has just discovered he is gay, or infact maybe he has been married all this time. What ever it is he isnt being honest and that is a huge red flag, I say back off and try to heal and get on with your life-- if it is meant to be he should be the one coming after you .
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Touch choices need to be made. Wonderful picture, though.
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hold out for someone who makes you feel great........life is too short
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