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My wife is a goddess but I make her believe she is scum cuz if she knew how amazing she was, she would leave me.I am afraid without her. I am scum.

My wife is a goddess but I make her believe she is scum cuz if she knew how amazing she was, she would leave me.I am afraid without her. I am scum.

 
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Yes you are.
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Hey man she wouldn't leave you if anything she would praise you. woman like to hear compliments. If you don't tell her how wonderful she is then she will eventually leave you. What you won't do another man will.
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If she has any confidence she will leave and that is why I treat her like shes an idiot. If she left I would be alone til I died. She is the only one who ever gave me a chance all other women think I am boring and nerdy. So I am nice once in a while then the rest I am an ass to her. I ignore her, pretend to forget things important to her, never compliment her and often pretend interest in random other women. I even cheated once with a woman looking fo citizenship. Wife now believes no one will love her and that is how I want it to stay.
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You are just plain cruel. Just so you know she will realize it without you ever having to tell her. If you want her to stay, all you can do is treat her right and then she will want to.
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I hope she leaves you and finds a real man!
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Sorry but no matter what you think you cannot control another person. Your trance will wear off she will wake up and relize that your a nerdy a** ****. Stop acting from fear and start acting from Love. Good Luck with your life, sorry you are so insecure :(
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you are probably my girlfriends husband. it's ok I'll let her know just how wonderful she is. Go f--k yourself.
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awww baby i love you. now stop calling me bad names, i give better bjs when youre nice to me.
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what the f***? Oh my god you can't do that to her you f***ing loser!
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Have you ever thought how really wonderful she would be if she knew how you really feel? How can you be so selfish and hurt her so badly?Please rethink your methods.
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This guy is full of SHIT! He lives in a fantasy world and there probably isn't even a woman in it.
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^WTF do you mean "fantasy world"? This is f***ing hell! Do you have any clue what it is like to have a beautiful woman in your life that you fear will leave you every day? Do you have any f***ing clue what it is like to flush your soul down the toilet everyday to be and ass to the only person who loves you because you are terrified of losing her? I hate this! I wish I could be oblivious like most guys think that I am god's gift to her and every woman, but I know I am scum and I know my wife is really and truly a goddess - who's soul I am destroying with my own fear and greed.
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Therefore, if you love her, set her free. It's the only thing you can do.
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my husband wrote this....
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Get therapy, you are losing your mind!
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^ BULLSHIT! but one hell of a fantasy. You don't have an inferiority complex... YOU ARE inferior.
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You are fooling yourself. I am a woman and a wife. No matter what you feel you are lacking, she's with you for a reason. Trust me: treat her like the queen you say she is, and you will always be her king.
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2^ You are right. I AM inferior to her. I know this. I pretend that I don't give a shit about her but sometimes when I watch her while she is sleeping - I cry. I hate myself for being so scared and I hate myself for being so weak to not be able to just love. I am terrified that if I show her my love and let her love herself that I won't be enough, that I am not enough. The only reason she is with me now is because I have made her a prisoner. But then again, maybe I am the real prisoner?
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you are simply bored and lonely you have no gf to abuse. But you are insecure.
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you are a controlling and manipulative turd licker.
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^ Who will soon be a very lonely, controlling and manipulative turd licker!
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Even if I did "treat her right" it would backfire and she would leave because I am nothing so I have to keep her feeling lower than nothing. It works. Most days she has lost all sense of her own beauty and spirit. When she is with her friends she remembers it so then I make her feel guilty for spending time with them. I punish her when she is at her best but if I don't she will leave and no one will ever want me. I also have an image to keep up as a happily married man to my family and colleagues.
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You got that right, you are scum. The best part? She will realize the truth and leave you.
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Be careful - All it will take is some nice decent guy to see her for what she is and actually verbalize it and you'll be walking down the road talkin' to yourself!!
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You are a black man.
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and you will be scum when she finally wises up and leaves you... and she will
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3^, I've thought of that and so once I told her that she looked like a fatter version of this one actress and that when any men pay attention to her it is just because they are mocking her resemblence to the actress and being fat. Truth is, she is overweight but beautiful inside and out. No matter how badly I treat her she is always loving and forgiving of me. Sometimes when she thinks she is alone, she sings and her voice is so incredible. She could easily sing professionally. Actually I am an average white male, not black. I make a decent income but she could easily support herself, she is very smart and resourceful, also very creative but I make her think that her gifts are worthless. I feel threatened by her because I have a degree and I am easily replaceable. She doesn't have one but her talents are incomparable to others in her field. But I never let her know these things. If she knew, she would be gone.
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