I know it is crazy once a month. But a lot of things play into a lack of sex drive. Change in sleep, eating, stress, medication and so on.Has she been abused in the past. Talk with her go to the Dr. Get her drunk. try being romantic.
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RUN! Run like the wind, it can only get worse.
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I'm with the previous comment, run !!! If she is just a girlfriend and you are not married, it's only going to get worst if you ever marry.
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maybe shes thinking she shouldn't of given up the milk so soon cause he's getting the cow for free so shes holding out. Your going to regret it remember you cant turn a hoe into a house we-if you go out and get your ass a girl who likes to f*** and shes gonna be f***ing more than just you.
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It will get worse when you marry.
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. maybe she is hiding an std outbreak(herpes)
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Sex is a fundamental part of every relationship, and the most primal of our urges....if you aren't compatible now, it isn't going to get better.
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I didn't have much of a sex life with my wife after we got married because I didn't love myself, and didn't understand how a wonderfully awesome babe could love someone like me. Then after several years of infrequent lovemaking, she went to someone else. When the other man's wife found out and my wife decided to tell me, it was then that I began to realize how my hangups had affected how my wife and I interacted with each other. My wife doesn't love me in the way that she did in the beginning, but she hasn't left me either, and after a ten year marriage we are finally beginning to understand the lack of communication. We are now making love 3-5 times a week instead of once a month, and it feels great!! But I had to get over my problems and just love myself first, before I could begn to love her. The bible led me to this understanding.
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Why are you still with this girl? I swear men like abuse. There are other women out there.
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Get a how to book, watch porn...if you do it right we will beg for it! It don't have to be just with your tool, use your mouth on her, your fingers...get the hint?
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it will not get better. Bail while you do not need a lawyer
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and what ever you do, DONT GET HER PREGNANT!!!
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my gf is the same way one a month when she sas its ok......we've been together 10 yrs.....i hate the sexless relationship...but i love her..i will never leave her....but i think about having sex.....alot
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^^^man up and grow a pair. What a puss.
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sex is over rated...id rather masterbate
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Even at the eight year mark, my husband and I had sex at least 3 or more times a week. I never strayed.
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^ he did. Trust me He DID!!
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The truth is Women LOVE sex. The other truth is that Men are greedy f***s. It takes TIME which men seems to like to spend the least amount of this on you especially once your married...TIME, it takes time, like actually enjoy her body appreciate it, show her by your action not words. A woman will usually come around to this sort of dance, sad thing is most men don't like to dance. They just like to b**** about b****es...ever hear takes one to know one ;)
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Some women don't like sex at all, some only to it to get the things they want(so you better keep them wanting), and some enjoy it. It's not hard to tell which one you are with, and unless she is going through a major change like pregnancy or menopause, she won't change anytime soon. You have to decide if you can live with a freind as a wife and whether you will be satisfied enough to not cheat.
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I'm with you OP. My girlfriend doesn't put out much more than that. She has body issues, she hates how she looks naked so she can't feel aroused worrying how I feel, no matter what I tell her. It's draining emotionally. Has nothing to do with the lack of a physical side.
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Did you tell her that? Straight up let her know that it's hard ...literally and she is shutting you down. If she isn't willing to compromise and help you or touch you to make you cum then she doesn't care much and possibly doens't Love you.I like your picture it caught my eye....You can maybe play her Ticks and Leeches ;) Good Luck
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You really dont love her if you are wanting to leave her for lack of sex...REAL love and sex are two different things...If you REALLY loved someone but couldnt have sex with them for the rest of your life it shouldnt matter...
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^It's not like she "can't have sex" with him - b**** just don't wanna. She needs to come correct and cough up some ass!
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the truth is women dont like sex. they pretend to like it till you marry them. then you might as well cut your dick off. you might get the once a month pity f*** but its not worth it because she acts like she doing you a favor.Most of all dont marry a irish girl, they are cold hearted and never give up the vag
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My girlfriend doesn't seem to like having sex with me either. But I wouldn't leave her because of it. It's just that we used to have sex all the time, and now we don't. Because of her. I'm scared she's going to leave ME.- :(
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