for the life of me i dont know why people leave secrets when they get these types of comments. Do the posters just ignore them?
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It's a shame to see so many secrets that mirror my own. our relationships(and really thing around us) are a mirror image of ourselves. I lost the lady of my dreams because my life was a nightmare. I thought she had the time to understand and help me out of it. She was so busy - I always felt left out. I was left out, and us being 2 hours away did not help.(i lacked a car) I had lost hope and amibtion. SHe fell in love with my passion for life, food, music. But she - like with everyone of her relationships - seemed be finding me at the time where i began to fall into a pit of loneliness, tired, bored and moody. our end left me with a few choices. A. I could go dashing after her...but i have no savings. I would be more of a burdenB. live in a bottle, and fast (did that. yes I know... pathetic)C. Leave her alone and pick up the pieces of my shattered life, repair years and years of rejection( even pre woman of dreams), and be the really great guy that I am.I am scared to lose anymore than I already have
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3 and 5 ^^ NO SHIT FLAMERS!! that was then.! now its way different! I just needed a f***ing break form the goddamn nag! I cant bail her and her white trash family out!
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I needed support from my woman. she could nt see past her own selfishness for one second.
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(to OP) were you the real woman?? I doubt it. I think you relize this in hindsight. if a man wants only loyalty he should buy a puppy. REAL MEN DO NEED A WOMAN FOR MORE THAN LOYALITY. Im so sick of this opinion. Woman complete men whether they want to addmit it or not. it doesnt have to be a finacial compliment, but on a soul level woman are more important to men than they will ever know. When did you take time you make him smile. never .. you just lived in some movie fantasy. Life isnt the movies lady, and your new guy will eventually see you to be the very insecure gal you really are! To many men have run over you... why is that??? think about it?!??!
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(To original poster)Your last guy was probably under stress you did not know about. maybe you did, but maybe you didnt care. Maybe this guy finally noticed that he shouldnt have to be the breadwinner for you, your child , and your parent when you treated him with such cruelty and manipulation.. Maybe it was you who was who put up the front. Maybe this guy works 4 jobs now, and just maybe still loves you, but wants you to not be so gaddamn dependant upon other people to make your own life better? nuff said.
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you base your love for others on what they can do for you, but its not your fault. your parents failed you. you just want to be a skank cause you feel cheap and easy inside.
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good for you whore!
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thanks very much. how sweet.
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Good for you! Any man who pulls that card is just an insecure jerk! He knows it is really HIM that no one else will want!!
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I would one day like to hear you prespective on what a "real" man actually is.
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I broke up with you
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I said no one else would want you because of that nasty on-going yeast infection that you have! He only loves you because he can't get anyone else because of those Hemorrhoids that dangle out of him like a bunch of Grapes
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OP here again: I posted this to give other women hope that there is life out there. If I had believed him, I would still be on the same depressive treadmill of my old life. Instead, my life did a complete 180. I have never been this happy! The stupid comments mean nothing. Just someone with no life who is bored.
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^^ you think you know me enough to say that "too many men have run me over"? I am not insecure. It was HIS jealousy that finally pushed me over the edge. You obviously think you know more about relationships than you actually do. MY man wants to be the breadwinner and to provide. He has SAID these words. And yes,, I was the real woman I described above. he pretended to have these quialities, but I soon saw through to the real him. He was eventually very cruel to me. It had to end.
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Just give it time, your new real man will dissapoint you too. There are no men who are the perfect one. I bet you thought(at one point) that your ex was a real man? exactly, Men are so stupid they are willing to risk everything for thier own pleasure. It is the way of the beast.
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AMEN! And screw you, Dumont Dan!
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^^ Why do anything? It's obvious you are a failure with no money or car..Leave a note for her and then jump of a bridge, she will find it romantic.
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Your first mistake was in thinking someone else was going to save you. You are responsible for yourself whether you like it or not, Manup! Another liberal wienie wanting everyone else to "help" him out. ^Sometimes people need a kick in the ass not a pat on the head. This one is a good example.
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2 up^ it is the truth! no car. no money, no savings= loser!! no wonder she left!!
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I agree ... "Good for you! Any man who pulls that card is just an insecure jerk! He knows it is really HIM that no one else will want!!"
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she must not be a very good catch since she ended up with you in the first place,lol, lol,lol
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OP here: To the post that wanted to hear my idea of what a real man is: A real man is one that makes sure you are safe. A real man knows how to make me smile. A real man doesnt want anything from me except loyalty. A real man doesnt NEED a woman but wants her. A real man is trustworthy. These qualities can be applied to a real woman as well.
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