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I'm giving up my own space, making a commitment to this relationship. I could turn back but it seems almost too late. I'm scared to death it might be a mistake.

I'm giving up my own space, making a commitment to this relationship. I could turn back but it seems almost too late. I'm scared to death it might be a mistake.

 
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If you think it is a mistake then I would turn back b4 it is going to be 100 times harder... Same thing happened to me two years ago, if your not positive this is a move you want to make-don't.
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If your not looking at this as a gain, rather than a sacrifice. Doubts are natural and if its a mistake than you took a chance, two mature people will know if it is working out or if it is not.
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as long as you truly know the person, it will be ok. If not at least you tried! Whats the worst that can happen?
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integrity is everything, find someone with integrity and you will be golden.
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If this is a girl, make sure he treats you right!Men have a way of showing their true colors and lack of appreciation. If this is a guy make sure she has a good heart, women have a way of not being as great as they first seem-like why is she really moving in? Like the above posts said whats the worst that can happen? If there has been a lot of time and effort put in the relationship than this is the natural progression! Integrity really is everything, astute observation!
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Even in commited relationships, each person needs their own "space". You are scared because you are looking at it as giving up your own identity... if this relationship means giving up your identity and becoming one of those freak Brangelina type couples, then yes, it is a mistake.
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If you think it's a mistake it is...
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IF YOU HAVE ANY ? ABOUT IT , IT'S MOST DEFINITALY A MISTAKE!!!! BE TRUE TO YOU!!!!!
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As long as they can hold your own you will be ok.
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Its never to late to stop a bad decision from becoming a worse one. I wish someone would have told me that on my wedding day, deep down... I always knew!
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red flag buddy, red flag.
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Been there, on moving-in day I told him I couldn't do it, never been so relieved.
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You will know soon if it does not work out, if you know this person well enough then you both should be able to be honest with each other.
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wowza, watcha gona do
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