When my nephew came out and told his mom he was gay, he was 16 years old. Sure she had a very hard time with it but in time she loved him the same she always had. He would not let everyone know but he lived a happy fulfilled life. The sad part is he commited suicide because some of his family constantly put him down. He went out to Las Vegas and shot himself. Par of the note said he no longer wanted to hurt his mom, how can I be happy if she isnt? He is very missed and will always remain in our hearts......so please give them the respect and dont call them names, you yourself have flaws to, noone is perfect. One other thing, mynephew would have given our helped anyone out in any way. So to you sick people think what you must but he isin a place of peace, where are you?
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i'm glad my older brother came out, i could see how it was eating at him inside. even now he still doesnt tell everyone but the people that love him and accept him know and i really like having my big sister lol
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Don't deny who you are. Gay or straight. you deserve to love who you love. But you need to learn to love yourself first.
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Maybe the fear of the repercussions is worse than the actual repercussions?
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I did the same thing for years. Was a scared little mormon boy. What I built up in my mind was far more frightening than the reality when I told my family and friends. They freaked out, of course, but life went on and they got over it. So much wasted years and energy on this fear. Pull the dam down and let life flow.
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Here's the thing - you shouldn't have to say it. Society should be at the point where it doesn't make a difference. Orrientation is included in many laws - and people ought to respect that. Unfortunately all these things I preach are "ought to's" and "should be's". Maybe you should be brave and just stand your ground for the gay community.- i know I ran away so I didn't have to tell my family. (and by run away, I mean I moved across country.) Who are all slowly figuring it out on their own. Easier on me and I if someday I find someone special enough to bring home to the fam - i'm gonna just bring 'em and let my hick family sit in the awkwardness. Best of luck to you.
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come on out of that closet,we have cookies
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Start with a close friend, someone you trust and feel comfortable with in general. It helps if you know that they already have gay freinds. It gets easier every time you open up to someone in your life. If the situation presents itself, tell a complete stranger, someone you meet while traveling for example. The first time is the hardest. Best of luck.
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Reckon you'd pass thru the Oracle at Delphi?
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SET YOUR SOUL FREE AND YOU'LL WISH YOU DID IT 10 YEARS AGO. LET YOUR FREAK FLAG FLY...
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OP Thanks to all the people who offered good advice to all the people who talked shit.....I KNOW you wouldnt say that to my face or you'd be eating out a damn straw right now. dont think im weak just because i was born this way and even though i tried to change ...I cant... and it feels so wrong acting like im not and hiding the true me which is a masculine guy who is just not attracted to women...BELIVE ME IF I COULD CHANGE AND JUST BE REGULAR.....I WOULD
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Hmm, I think you should come out man. I mean gay sex prob would feel very good if you let it, if your still young your missing out on the golden gay sex years. Just tell one of your closet friends if your confused. You will feel so much better
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^2 Thank You I really Like that advice I believe you are right
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TO THE POSTER.DO NOT CHANGE FOR ANYONE BUT YOURSELF.YOU HAVE MORE REAL FRIENDS THAN YOU THINK.I CAME OUT AT 16 AND NEVER LOOKED BACK.MY TRUE FRIENDS HAVE BEEN THERE WHEN I NEEDED A SHOULDER AND THE FAKE WAS JUST STOPPED TALKING TO ME.NO LOSE FOR ME.BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE.ITS NOT UR CHOICE OF PARTENERS ITS YOUR CHOICE IN LIFE WHAT YOU DO.AND I DO NOT MEEN UR SEXUAL CHOICE.
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Come out! Don't do as I did and live a false life. When I hit 50, I looked back and realized that I missed MY life. Live Free my friend.
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Maybe you are not gay. Perhaps you are just willing to hold a cock in your mouth until the swelling goes down.
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Here's the deal: chances are, people have already figured you're gay anyways and they're just waiting for you to say something. It'll be a new day and a new life for you. I know a few people that have come out and they feel so much better now.
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Be you, you'll feel much better and the people who truly love you will love you regardless of your sexual orientation. To Hell with the rest.
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You don't have to know why, or to help it! You are who you are, and the people that love you UNCONDITIONALLY will STILL LOVE YOU! My son is gay, doesn't make me love him any less!! I so love him, that it doesn't matter WHOM HE LOVES! Good luck to you! Ignore the comments of the bigots on here and live your life!!
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