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I love my daughter more than my husband. I don't mind him, but my heart is hers, not his.

I love my daughter more than my husband. I don't mind him, but my heart is hers, not his.

 
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That's totally normal.. things change after you have kids and everyone I knew felt that same way! Love comes and goes and if you make it long enough it comes back around to that giddy love thing again.. some years you hate them.. some you don't mind them and other's are great.. that's life.. Don't feel bad about it and just keep going because that's where some people go wrong.. they jump into divorce when they hit that low point instead of waiting it out until it gets good again.
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thats the norm and i'm sure the husband feels the same. but yea like he/she said above me, dont neglect the marriage, it'll be hard with a new born but try and make time for each other
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It's been my experience that all women are that way with their children. They got what they needed from the guy and now they just need help raising the kids....an income and someone to fix stuff and do the yard work.
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I think that it what happens when you become a mother.
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I think that is what happens when you become a mother.
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It is what happens. Your kids should always come first and it sounds like they will.
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Maybe he feels the same way.
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It's natural to feel that way about a newborn, especially if you are (hopefully!) breastfeeding. Your hormones are designed to give you tremendous feelings of bonding with the baby; just remember that she will need a happy home, so don't neglect working on your marriage too.
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mothers instinct is a beautiful thing. i feel the same way about my daughter :)
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I love bot my boys more than my wife. I'm sure she loves them more than me. That doesn't mean I love her any less then I did before we had kids.
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This is why so many women are single mothers out there. BECAUSE THEY ARE LIKE THIS STUPID PERSON!
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I can't stand my kids most of the time. And for that matter, my husband either. They're all too stressfull!
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your baby has ugly feet
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Good mom! And baby still needs a good dad, so protect all that she has. xox
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I think it is natural to love your child more than your spouse, in fact i would say it is healthy
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That happened to me. My husband and I divorced and he moved away. I get my daughter all to myself and an so thankful. She is the total light of my life. My husband was never like that. He wouldn't even help out when we were married. He was too busy cheating
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by the way, your baby has adorable feet...the dumbass that said they were ugly needs to grow up. i loves me some baby feet :)
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^ yeah with ketsup or mustard? Kinda like pigs feet huh?
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